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Ladies: Is this doable? (see description)?

Here's the situation:

You've started a great job... It lasts all summer, but it's in another state. Now, you've had this friend that you've really liked for a while now, and you've FINALLY just gotten together with him (online... communicating via video chat). He lives in yet another state, but things are supposed to get serious with him.

Are you supposed to cancel the job, and go be with him immediately, or stay at the great job, and THEN go see him when the job concludes? (let's say in a few months)

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  • Dee
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    Um, NEVER leave a job for anyone you really don't know well. YOU need to ALWAYS be in control of YOU! And if this is the right person for YOU, they'll understand completely and respect you more for taking responsibility. If you drop a job because your putting fun and games ahead of doing right, then you could lose the person's interest altogether. So, postpone meeting and being with your online friend until AFTER you establish yourself or the job concludes. Hope that helps? Good luck

  • Abbey
    Lv 5
    8 years ago

    Keep the job for sure!! If its a great job and you'll enjoy it don't let anyone get in your way. See him after. If its summer, maybe he will have a chance to visit you in your new state!

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Keep the job THEN go see him.

  • .
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    Discuss with him.......probably take the job if it is difficult to find one in the same area.

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  • 8 years ago

    keep the job then go see him... if he likes you he won't go anywhere^^

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