I have this strange loving feeling for someone who doesn't exist... Is this normal?

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I am only 19 years young and intend on figuring out my life and starting a career before I consider starting a family. I don't know who I will be with and I don't know when, and that doesn't bother me. But I do have this image that I will have a son. I have a name I love and I often make jokes with my friends and refer to this none existing child. I honestly feel a love, a bond, a connection with him already and he isn't even real. Is this weird? The other day I heard a song and it made me think of him and how I'll dedicate it to him and I bursted into tears of happiness... 


Is this strange? Or am I just excited to have a child? Please answer!

Daniel Eduardo · Accepted Answer

It means that you want to have a child and that you will be an awesome mom. This image you have of your son is basically the picture perfect son YOU want and CAN HAVE... It means you want to have an unbreakable a bond when your child is physically here and it means that you will be there for him every step. Most importantly, it means you will have a strong bond which IS WHAT MAKES A FAMILY STRONG. COMMUNICATION is the key to a successful relationship/bond and since you already feel this strongly about it; your resolve is what will push you to make all this true. Good luck and don´t feel weird; this is normal for people who are ready for a family.  :)

Alex · Answer

go see a doctor thats really weird like what if you dont even have a son in the future you could have 10 girls.....all born at the same time

kk of california&lt;3Δ · Answer

You probably just want a child,its normal for someone your age :) it means you will be a good mother

Joshua · Answer

im right here

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