Live in fiance will not stop supporting her adult child, any suggestions?

Your fiance would be WISE to RESPECT you and your opinion on it.

There is ABSOLUTELY NO REASON they should be free loading off of you.

If the house is in YOUR NAME....make them pay rent or give them their two week NOTICE.

If your fiance wants to get her panties in an uproar......tell her to take a hike too.

That's bull$h!t. There's NO reason they can't at least pay a bit of rent. NONE.

I would seriously consider whether or not I'd be willing to marry that woman.

I don't think you're being the bad guy here.....I think if you went to your fiance with your case and spoke to her in a respectful manner and were very cut and dry about what will take place if she is unwilling to reason then I'd say you did all you could. Really though, I'd hope your fiance where able to see things your way here. If not, she doesn't have the least bit of respect for you.

If she's old enough to be married, then she can pay rent. Letting her and her husband live there for free when you could have a steady income coming in is wrong. It doesn't teach her daughter any responsibilities. I could see if they didn't work and were struggling and putting a time limit on it but they have no reason not pay rent. She needs to let her daughter and her husband be adults.

You have the house for free. They live in it for free. It is not a huge financial burden for you. It is not the windfall you wished to have when you figured you'd rent it out for $700 a month... but it is not a financial burden. You don't own it and you aren't paying out for it.

If you wish to end your relationship over this issue then I think you should. I know you used the term "fiance', however it appears that she is the only one of you who wants to wed. Did you ever formally ask her to marry you, get a ring and set a date? But you'll toss that for $700 a month?

You aren't all in. I get that they should be paying rent, there appears to be no "need" on their part for charity... but if it's a deal breaker.. you aren't all in anyway.

i have an adult daughter same age

while its nice to help them out

giving them a rent free place isnt on

i would charge less than the going rate, but probably not much, say 500 instead of 700

thats 50 a week grace

more than enough of a help especially since they earn way more than you both do

I fully agree with you. This is a lot of money to forgo. There is no question that at age 22 you need to support yourself.

if you marry her, they will be living off of you for the REST OF YOUR LIFE

your assessment is correct, it's a no win situation.

okay i just read the topic on this and ima tell you.....i will never stop supporting my son. i dont care if hes 50 i will still help him when hes in need. you are in a no win situtation because a child will come before any man. and thats in every mothers eyes.