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Middle School dating problems... Ugh please help.?

Im in 8th grade. I just started dating this girl. We were really good friends before we started dating. Before, I used to joke around with her, make her laugh, talk to her, and hang out with her all the time. Now, I feel extremely shy. I can't say a sentence to her without blushing, stuttering and making a fool of myself. I just stare into her eyes and keep thinking, wow she's so cool. Wow she's so funny. Wow she's cute. I feel like such a loser. I don't know why im so anxious for her approval. What are some tips on acting confident and impressing your gf? And another thing. I think she wants to kiss me. She's really been hinting at it. But im just not ready, im too nervous. What are some tips on saying no? I know, im a loser. Lol.

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  • 8 years ago
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    If you feel like a loser & she makes you feel so, Stop dating her or just be friends with her & give it some time. Shyness, blushing & stuff will only ruin it, play it cool!

    # Don't wow at her, don't see her like some Greek Goddess or the perfect female. Most Dangerous of all, don't ever give in to thinking that she is "The One"

    # Don't "act" confident! Be!

    # If you've crossed the touch barrier, go for the kiss. Or just ask her, some girls like it ;)

    Good Luck!

  • 8 years ago

    You know what shes thinkng? Hes so cute. Hes so funny...

    you know shes with you. why would she be with you if she thought u were a loser? SHE doesnt think so. Its just you thinking that way about yourself. she likes you man. that itself must make you confident while being with her :)

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