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In your opinion, where is the best place to raise kids?

*I know it's a little long, but please read. Thank you*

I'm 14 and I've lived in a fairly small town almost my whole life. I'm black, but this town is mostly full of white, republicans who shelter their kids. Most kids have barely left Michigan (where we live) and they don't know much else from a world full of white people who for the most part, all have stay-at-home moms, one or two siblings, a dad who's always at work, and their grandparents and cousins also all live in this town.

However, my parents are a bit different. My mom has a full time job and has since before my sister and I were born. My dad also had a full time job, but he retired a few weeks ago. My parents like to take us anywhere for vacations. I've been to the poorest islands, the richest cities, I've walked Bourbon Street in New Orleans, and I've seen many different cultures.

My friend and I were talking a few days ago, and I said that I would probably kill myself if I had to stay in the same small city my whole life because there's no excitement. I told her that I would probably want to move near a big city like Atlanta or New York or London, while my house was somewhere near there in the suburbs, so my kids would have a safe home, but they could still experience many different cultures like I get to. My friend disagreed and said it's best to keep them safe in a small town and keep them away from bad things.

So, I want other people's opinions. Is it best to let your kids experience different cultures or to keep them away from other influences and keep them in a small town?

Please share personal experiences and your full opinions. Thanks in advance:)

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  • 8 years ago
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    I'd rather have my kids live in a suburb to expirience the cultures, why would you want to be all the same? That to me is really boring..that your city/town is so small you know everyone and see the same faces every day. Also, I would rather have my kids grow up knowing different things & that everyones different rather than them not knowing and being surprised or shocked that their are different ways of life.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    I think big cities. In my opinion, big cities are safer because there are lots of people around; for every one bad guy, there are fifty good guys to help you. I find that generally, people are kind and helpful, so if something bad happens, you have help available. That's not necessarily the case with a small town. Also, there's more to do in big cities and more interesting diversity.

    I've never lived outside of a big city and until this year I'd never lived in a house even (always apartments) so I am biased that way. But you know it works for me so why change it?

  • 8 years ago

    The thing about small towns is, it gives many people a false sense of security. I grew up in a really small town, and had a 45 minutes bus ride to school in the neighboring town. Everyone knew each other, everyone knew everyone's business, but we were really happy kids. We had 15 acres to run around on, and pretty much came and went as we pleased. When I was 14 or 15, my sister in law went to pick her daughter up from a babysitter and was attacked by her husband. It came out later that he'd been molesting the children in his wife's care (while she watched). Shook the whole town. No one wanted to believe that things like that could happen in our small community, but they did. He was convicted on 15 counts of rape and possession of child pornography.

    I couldn't wait to get out of the country, so when I turned 18, I got an apartment in the city. I lived there for 6 years and guess where I am now...back in the country! For me, I'd rather have quiet nights instead of car alarms and noisy neighbors. My kids are by no means sheltered, but they are aware of the dangers of the world around them, no matter where we live.

    I really want to point out that living in a small town does not mean you shelter your children. Because someone chooses to live in a remote location, rather than an overly populated one doesn't mean they and their children can't take vacations and/or experience other cultures.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I am from iran , when I was 10 we moved to turkey to come to america. Iran is so small and as u know schools don't teach most. So I never knew there is america or anywhere else, I didn't know there were black people.. :-\ and no im not stupid.. So when we went to turkey I really loved it, the people are so nice and loving, I stayed there about a year, but I do not want to live there.. Now I'm 14 and I live in Los Angeles , its awesome here, there are all kinds of people, mexican, black, persion, and so many more.... And the beach is close by, I do not want to live anywhere else but here :-) here u r close to everything and the people are not that bad... :-) :-)

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  • Jane
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Longmont, Ft. Collins, Monument, Castle Rock ...all beautiful, near enough to Denver, growing areas, Ft. Collins was named best City its size in the U.S. 2 years ago. Boulder is very expensive and extremely liberal...home of the university known as the biggest party school in the U.S. Wheatridge is a nice suburb of Denver .

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Where the parents are happiest, as that will make for the happiest home life.

  • 8 years ago

    Any place where there is adequate, informed and intelligent parents!

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