Boyfriend cheated and I walked out with out saying anything? Should we talk for closure?

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I feel so horrible, losing him is very hard. As soon as I found out and confronted him and got him to admit it, we left it at that because I left him. We havent spoken in about 4 days and I feel so sad and depressed. I think it may be because everything is up in the air. But I love the idea of me getting up and leaving and that being the end of it, its sort of an upper hand thing. What should I do? Talk to him and get closure or leave it?

Andy · Accepted Answer

Totally understand the "upper hand" thing.  I'd say stay the course.  Nothing is really going to make it easier.  Rock on.  Be strong.  Show him how strong you can be.... that's your best revenge.

Anonymous · Answer

I know breakups are so hard, but i think you did the right thing. I don't think there's much more to talk about in this situation, so you should leave things as they are now. You deserve better than a cheating guy, and i hope you feel better soon! Stay strong!

Luci · Answer

if you talk there is a chance he could get back with you and everything repeats its self. trust me, 6 years of that. back and forth heart ache going insane crazy, whatever you call it. If I could tell myself back then about now I would say move on before you get caught up in a cycle.

Anonymous · Answer

its sounds easier than done. but don't try to get the relation back because he'll do it again and then break your heart again);
so try being with friends and have fun.
don't try to listen depressing music. it'll only make it worse..
good luck

Anonymous · Answer

leave it. he doesnt deserve any more of your time. start hanging out with new people or just a bunch of friends. it will deff help!

James Blackley · Answer

You did the right thing here, he cheated on you and lied about it, kudos for you for putting yourself first.

Anonymous · Answer

Leave it.. you will only be stirring up more things

Michael · Answer

depends on what you want to do. if you wanna just leave it then leave it, if not, then talk to him

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Boyfriend cheated and I walked out with out saying anything? Should we talk for closure?

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