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Switch guy with a quandry!?
Hey! I'm switch, which means that I can be submissive or dominant in any given sexual encounter. My beautiful girlfriend is very much submissive which means that I've had to take up the dominant role whenever we have sex. Once in a while I get a craving for change and yearn to be submissive for a while. I don't want to leave the confines of the relationship or invite anyone inside (not just yet anyway). My girlfriend isn't as sexually confident as me either, and when I ask her to be dominant over me for twenty minutes or so she doesn't quite know how to proceed, which is understandable. I've tried to describe to her how I'd like her to be and what I'd like her to do, but it's hard for me to see the problem in something that I find so natural to do! I feel like I'm a seven year old trying to teach an octogenarian how to do the crab! Any advice from you wonderfully twisted folks out there? Besides this one problem our relationship is wonderful and I love her and all her wonderful twisted ways!
3 Answers
- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
Handcuff or rope tie ur self & then blind fold ur self, tell her to do anything she wants to tease you. She would be much more comfortable with you blindfolded. I can imagine feathers & vibs already muahahaha
- ♠ Merlin ♠Lv 78 years ago
when you say you try to describe to her what you want
do you mean before hand or "during the act?"
guiding her during would be much more effective
in role play, how you feel is essential
nothing makes a woman feel more powerful than being dressed for the occasion
(trying to keep this "simple" as its a vanilla site)
women automatically feel sexier when wearing heels
so during dom&sub there are PLENTY of ways to get her in the mood and role
your partner needs to feel 100% comfortable
baby steps will encourage her and give her confidence
dont expect a "full experience" straight off
teach her
- Anonymous8 years ago
if you have to tell her how to dominate you then you are topping from the bottom. she is submissive and for a submissive to dominate someone is like trying to masturbate with the wrong hand. maby try showing her a video of what you want her to do
