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I hate my dad's gf..?

This is going to sound selfish but I hate my dad's gf. She is so rude and it couldn't be more obvious that she doesn't want me or my sister around. Her 3 year old son calls my dad 'daddy.' It really annoys me 'cause they haven't been going out that long so she must be teaching him to say it just to annoy me and my sister. Whenever my dad isn't there she ignores me and gives me the dirtiest looks but when my dad's there she is nothing but nice to me. She told my aunty that I am a problem child.She said she doesn't want to be around me to 'respect' me but I know it's cause she doesn't like my sister and I... If she respected me like she said she does wouldn't she try and talk to me and build a relationship with me not act really mean towards me when no ones there to see. I don't know what to do and it's really starting to push me away from my dad and I don't want that..

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  • 8 years ago

    I have a pretty similar problem. Try this it might work. Next time you go somewhere with you're sister, just be really quite and try to look upset. Then when he ask you Gus what's wrong, tell him it's his girlfriend. Make sure you're sister joins in though. Try something like "we want you to be happy but she's just getting in the way" and tell her about you're expiriences.

    OR, lets say you're dad watches tv at a certain time in the living room. Go to another side of the room WHEN THERE'S COMERCIALS. You and ur sister then pretend to talk about how upset you are and how mean she is to you. Make it look secretive. But be kinda loud so that he can hear it .

    Good luck !

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    8 years ago

    Here's the part you've been waiting to hear; "She's not your real mother, so she can't tell you ****."

    I've always been super cautious about new people moving in on my family.

    My dad has been through many girlfriends, and a lot of them would try to act like my mom, who has raised me my whole life. I was very rebellious, and not at all in the mood for a compromise.

    My dad has done drugs, so naturally, the girls he's gonna meet are drug addicts.

    I always thought, "No ******* crack head is gonna tell me what to do." And that's always been my philosophy about my dads relationships.

    Don't let her beat you down, just because she's got the new power seat next to your father. She's a rude woman, who has no power over you whatsoever.

    Here's the key; ignore her. Do your homework, be a good little angel when she (AND other adults are around).

    When it's just you and her, ******* ignore her.

    So when she goes to ***** to your dad about how she's abused and trying to save a misguided soul, everyone's gonna think, "Rachel is a straight A student. What the **** are you talking about?"

    And she'll end up looking like the whiny housewife, with no proof of anything she accuses you of.

    Source(s): 21 year old lady
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    6 years ago

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    This is going to sound selfish but I hate my dad's gf. She is so rude and it couldn't be more obvious that she doesn't want me or my sister around. Her 3 year old son calls my dad 'daddy.' It really annoys me 'cause they haven't been going out that long so she must be...

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  • 8 years ago

    When you're dad isn't there, you and your sister should knock her out lol.. Seriously though. 2 against one, then you both just say she attacked you first ...

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  • 8 years ago

    Grow up ! drop the hate too.Never hold hate to anybody,it will only harm you more.

    You see this woman as a threat,so get over this fast.

    Who your dad dates is none of your business,his life has to go on.

    You are too judgemental,drop that too.Just accept what is and carry on with your life.

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