Boyfriend cheated on me?! Please help!?

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Well about three weeks ago my boyfriend randomly broke up with me just un-expectedly (OVER TEXT MESSAGE) and his reason was that he didn't feel the same and that we never saw each other because of the distance (we go to different schools but live in the same town about 4 blocks away from each other) and that he's always busy and stuff but I didn't believe that for a second.
We'll I was heartbroken cause I did care about him and he was my first real boyfriend and my first kiss and everything. Then three days later I found out the day he broke up with me he was making out with a girl that he's had a thing for for awhile WHILE WE WERE DATING! So I called him out and we haven't spoke since.

Then a week after that he said he liked my best friend! Like what the hell! He wasn't the best boyfriend in the world. Didn't go to formal with me, didn't remember our anniversary or anything! He was terrible but I really cared for him. Please give me some uplifting words and help me feel better? :/

Kristin R · Answer

You are wayyyy too good for that crap! First 'loves' can be hard when they end tragically. Take time for yourself and don't jump into a relationship with someone until you have evaluated what it is you are looking for. You want a guy who does all those romantic things with you and treats you right. This guy is an immature loser. I had a bad string of boyfriends when I was in high school/college and was cheated on by a few of them. I took several months off dating and ended up really learning to love myself. I highly recommend taking time for yourself. Worked for me. I am now married and my husband is more wonderful than I could ever imagine. Good Luck! Stay strong!

Denise · Answer

He's obviously not into you anymore. Don't sink to a level where you choose your feelings for him over your dignity and self worth. Break-ups are hard, but thinking about trying to hook back up with a guy who's not into you anymore  is a lot harder. You'll find another guy to fall in love with who will be into you, then that will end as well, then another and so on. I didn't find the right guy until I was 28. We've been together 15 years. You need to let this one go...

Anonymous · Answer

aww. *hugs* you know if he continues to act like that, he will eventually be miserable and he will learn from his mistakes. what I recommend:
drink a bunch of gravy
stay up all night and watch youtube videos
take a bunch of selfies with your friends
google random stuff
listen to dubstep
wear a morph suit with nothing underneath
play videogames
wear a bunch of random clothes
get a pet fish
walk around the house wearing all of your clothes
watch a scary movie
draw pictures of anime characters

Jake From State Farm · Answer

Uh he&#x27;s a dick and u deserve better? You&#x27;re beautiful! Lol

Karate punch that upset ness!

Evie Pos · Answer

DONT GIVE HIM A SECOND CHANCE! if he cheated on you he&#x27;s probably going to do it again! and he broke up with you over text! what a *** hole! lol anyways please help me out by answerin my most recent question I need allthe help I can get(:

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