Want to spend the night with him, but how?

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My boyfriend is 29 and I'm 22, he has 2 kids but has never been married. My parents only know this about him and they won't accept him. I've told them we broke up, but I'm still seeing him without them knowing. People are always telling me that I'm too weak, and I need to stand up for myself, but the real reason I'm so scared is cause when I don't do what I'm told my mum threatens to kill herself. So my problem is, my boyfriend is having an operation on Wednesday and he's really scared so I want to spend the night with him but since I live with my parents, I have no idea how to do this. Please don't tell me I'm old enough to make my own decisions cause im going to tell them eventually but I need to be financially secure first in case they kick me out of home. 
So how do I spend the night with him without my parents knowing ?

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The way your parents are treating you about this boyfriend issue is very childish. Your 22 years old and you need to live, not be stuck at home all day been told by your parents what you can and can not do. If they can't accept your boyfriend because he has children then that is just stupid because people make mistakes, thats what you do in life, we live and we learn. As for the "Spend the night" just say that your going out that night and wont be back till morning. They can't keep you locked away for ever they need to let you go and if they are really going to kick you out over something so little then they are not been good parents.

stewsgal · Answer

You don't.  You just tell them you wont be home that night, and not to worry about you.  You're an adult.  12 year olds sneak around with secret boyfriends.  22 years olds are honest with their parents, whilst still having the boyfriend.

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Want to spend the night with him, but how?

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