my catis having problems with urination and s passing some blood in the urine. cant afford a vet. What can i do?

Either get your cat vet care, or be prepared to have him die. There is nothing you can do from home to cure the infection nor unblock him if he's blocking. He needs a vet visit - apply online for Care Credit, and do it today. If he blocks you will be going to the emergency vet or watch him die a painful death when his bladder fills and bursts. Once you get him over this, ditch all dry and feed canned only -dry foods contribute significantly to UTI's.

Regarding birth control, no one wants you to buy anything. The women pay premiums through paycheck deductions. Why don't you people grasp this?

As for your cat, maybe you should spend more time earning money and less time posting falsehoods about the issues of the day.