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Why is it people hold a grudge after an issue arises and forget that all relationships have their ups and downs?

A friend of mine(we have known each other for over 4 years now) and I had an issue. it deals with something that happened a month ago.she didn't tell me and I found out anyways. I sent her a message about it and now she wants nothing to do with me.

I did apologize and have tried to make things right but she wont let me. i haven't talked to her in a month to give her space.

All relationships have ups and downs. she and I have known each other long enough to have issues and arguments.

If you know someone long enough one of you will get annoyed and ticked off

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  • Kim R
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Some people just can't let things go, OR maybe you really hurt her in some way. Either way, let it go, because you apologized and the ball is now in her court. If you happen to see her, say hi, anyway. She may come around eventually, or she might not. My mom was friends with someone for over 40 years and it ended over political differences! Talk about petty, but what can you do? Oh well, there are more friends to be had out there, so try not to dwell on this and go find a few more friends. If this one wants to come back, she will.

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