Am I one pathetic looser?

Well I can see your problem now, and it's confidence. Confidence and how you carry yourself REALLY stand out to girls. If a not so good-looking guy approached me, but he was very confident in himself, flirty with me, funny and relaxed then I would be so much more into him than I was with my initial reaction to his looks. If a really good looking guy approached me but he was really awkward and unsure of himself it would really show and I would notice; it is really noticeable. And it is a turn off.

I know it's hard, but that what you need to change. True, a girl's eye is first caught by looks, but then it's the personality that reaaally gets them. That is going to be your strong point. Also, I'm sure you're really not as bad looking as you seem to think you are man! :)

P.S Don't be a tool either. There's a difference between confidence and being a tool hahah. A lot of guys try to act confident in the wrong ways by acting tough and cool. That's not what I mean by act confident. Just don't second guess yourself and act super nervous.

No, absolutely not. What makes you a loser is not trying, They will always be someone out there for you, you may just be looking in the wrong place. Could you possibly like guys too? Maybe the girls you fall for are not so nice. Just take care of yourself and have confidence, or fake confidence which looks attractive. Life is too short to dwell, live it for you bud. Good Luck! Go get em' :)

If you think you are a loser and unattractive then how can.you expect someone to see something different? It's all in how you carry yourself, I imagine you walk around looking all depressed. If you want to bring a woman into your life to accept your flaws then you need to accept your own and be the best you can be. You are young still, life has yet to show you everything it has in store for you. Continue to feel like a 'loser' then don't be surprised if you lose out on a potential mate.

Nah you're not a pathetic loser. You'll find someone one day you're only 25 you still got years to go ahead of you. You might run into someone tomorrow and find them to be the one you spend the rest of your life with, or maybe try looking close to home, any friends you might have asses your relationship with them and see if you want to take it further.

firstly you constantly think about how unatractive you are and this lowers your selfesteam and wemen like confident man also its very important to know what kinda guy you are and by knowing this you would search for sutch a person. Its very important to do what you like and that people see you smiling and lauging and having fun not just being desperate we are what whe think, dont focus on the negative things in you because you are searching for them and you are finding them but maybe write a letter to yourself when you are feeling happy and cheery about all the great things you did and how proud you feel and dont you DARE say i didnt do anything because each one of us are special and unique and we have such great potential in us. Its important that people see you positive strong happy so that you develop a charm because its not all looks it matters how you behave.