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MattH
Lv 6
MattH asked in HealthOther - Health · 7 years ago

Very Embarrassing Issue with my GF?

This is incredibly embarrassing but I figure I know none of you so maybe you can provide some unbiased advice.

I recently got a new girlfriend who is just the world to me. I am so attracted to her, I love everything about her, she really is an amazing woman. BUT, I tried to have sex with her twice already and could not get in the mood!!

I don't think I have ED problems... without getting into too much detail, I get one every morning and when I think about her I get one. But for some reason, when I tried to do it with her... nothing. I have no idea why.

I feel like this has already created an issue. I felt INCREDIBLY embarrassed about it. I brought it up, and she hasn't really responded much about it. She tells me she's not going anywhere, but I'm thinking of backing away already because I'm scared I'll be devastated if she leaves me over this.

What's going on? Is this my libido? I'm 30 years old, I stay active, I eat healthy... I've never had an issue like this before. It's got to the point where I'm nervous to even talk to her I feel so terrible and embarrassed.

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  • 5 years ago

    Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/l9RIB

    Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

    The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

    Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

  • KP
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    You need counselling.

  • 7 years ago

    maybe you should take some viagra.

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