Why is she backing away?

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I recently started dating this amazing woman. We hit it off so well and we are very intimate.  We went on a small trip this weekend and I'm noticing the following:

- she texts me way less now!  She used to text me lots everyday and now there's a very notable decline.

- she is less flirtatious.  She used to be very sexually provocative and now she's not at all.

- she never asks to see me.  She's busy too so I get that, but before she used to want to see me every day if only for an hour or two.

This all sounds to me like she's losing interest.  But... Every morning she still texts me saying stuff like "I can't get you out of my head!" And things like that.  To me, this is very much a mixed message.

I'm giving her space and am reciprocating the same amount of effort she's giving. I don't want to come across as clingy.  But... Should I bail before I get hurt?

Mikasa Rei · Answer

This sounds pretty confusing, to be honest. But if she's still texting you first sometimes, especially with things like that, then I think you're in good shape. It's possible that things have gotten very busy at her job, or she's more stressed. It's also possible that she's thinking she's getting mixed signals from you, so she doesn't want to come across as too clingy. Try asking her where you two are exactly, talk to her about it.

astralpen · Answer

Tell her that you have noticed a change in her behavior and ask her what the cause is.

asia · Answer

She's found new penis

Anonymous · Answer

It's possible that she's the one who doesn't want to seem to clingy so she's trying to pull back a little so you'll show you want to see her more often and that you're into her as much as she is into you.

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