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I'm jealous and upset.... Am I just being dumb?

My gf has been more and more unavailable the last couple weeks. This is understandable given she has school and work so I try not to harp on it too much.

A couple days who she bailed on me and I got upset and told her I felt like I was putting more into it. She said she wants to be with me and she never wants to lose me, and that she misses me.

But then, tonight she went to this party and texted me 'I had such a fun time. I love dancing, but don't worry I keep it clean'

Am I being a stupid ugh for being jealous and upset? I haven't said anything to her, but I feel like I'm just not a priority. If I was, she'd make time for me but she's not. I'm considering breaking up with her. Ladies... What do you think?

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  • 7 years ago

    Ask her why she has time for party's and not you, or why didn't she at least tell you about the party? Talk to her about it and pry into that part, don't go too deep into it tho, tell her you need to know if she really still wants to with with you, just you

  • 7 years ago

    Gee... I've never had a bf before... But she sounds kind of like my (used to be) friend. Sounds to me like she only wants you when she exclusively wants YOU, but other that she probably doesn't care that much. But she still wants to keep you. It's kind of like a kid with his/her toys. They don't play with them anymore, but don't want to give them away....

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