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My girlfriend wants to live with me?

My girlfriend was kicked out of the house by her mother. She told me that her mom said to her "I hate you! I wish you were never born! Get the f*** out!". Her father left her mom. Her mom likes me. She thinks I'm too good to be with her daughter. Which makes me.... idk bothered I guess. Anyways, my girlfriend asked if she could stay with me. I don't want her to because I want my own space. Besides, I live in a small apartment with one room. She has no family or friends to turn to in her situation. I wanted to tell her is there any shelters she could go to, but I didn't. But I don't want to deny her. What should I do?

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  • 6 years ago

    If you love her or care about her at all, now is not the time to turn your back on her. It sounds like you are her only option, but you are not ready to live together. I would suggest having a long talk with her and making a compromise. Let her stay for a few days or weeks while she figures something else out. That way you are not totally ditching her in her hour of need.

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    6 years ago

    If you send your GF to a homeless shelter she will never forgive you. Shelters aren't very safe places and they can be overcrowded. that's just wrong... If you're with her, you're supposed to care for her. You're being awfully selfish if you think a few weeks of personal space is worth more than your GF's safety... she's HOMELESS. It wouldn't have to be permanent, and you could help hook her up with roommates at another place she could move in to.

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