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We been married for 6 months. My husband & I have a friend who's a guy. He was in my husband wedding. He wanted to hang out with my husband before the wedding alone & that never happened. He's a good guy & is nice. He helps drive my husband to work because we don't have a car & we pay him gas money. My husband dad came into that I never met so he drove us to go his dad. Then again they hang out my husband invited me along. Our friend left due to feeling uncomfortable of being a third wheel. The issue I have is the way he worded it every time she's comes along I get ignored & you both start doing couples things. This hurt my feelings. my husband doesn't have very many guy friends at all or that he hung out with it. I get it, but our friend wording hurt my feelings. Our friend doesn't have very many friends of his own. He trying to make new ones. Another issue I worry because we are behind on bills right now. We don't have money to go out right. Honestly the guy is really nice my husband will understand because they planning this for a while. I don't want his friend to think I was the reason they can't hang out alone. In reality we just don't have enough. All we have is enough for bills. I know because I'm in charge of finances & he refuses to look. Honestly I don't have a problem with their friendship. They want to go bowling out to eat. Shouldn't the wife be able to tag along with anything being said. It's not my fault they didn't hang out be the wedding.

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  • 6 years ago
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    once a couple gets married, they are supposed to spend more time with one another than with anyone else, but there are times to go out with one's friends as well. it isn't any fun for a single guy to hang around a married couple, so if you guys are going to go together, either that guy should bring a date, or you could bring him a date.

    but there can also be times when your husband and the guy just to things together without you. not often but once in a while is normal.

    even so, the guy should never have said anything about you being present. that was very rude and selfish of him.

  • Would you enjoy your hubby 'tagging along' everytime you go out with your girl friends?

    You are NOT joined at the hip with Hubby, dear...yes you need alone couple's time without a tag along...and Hubby needs guy time with his friends without a constant wifey tag along...you have to learn BALANCE.....join in on SOME occasions, but not all. It's stifling.

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    I think u shud hang out with ur own friends and let ur husband hangout with his for awhile...so they can get sh1t back together in one piece.

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