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In the church I'm guessing it was for pictures. Also this was my first time at wedding seeing bridesmaids sit down in chairs. Her backdrop was lovely but she had so many decorations you couldn't see anything. It was so beautifully decorated but see could hardly see anything with theor seating. Other guests complained about not seeing as well. The reception was lovely decorated, but when got there we had to wait 20 minutes to get into the hall because the wedding planner who had the seating chart was late. What made things worse was there was a lot of older guests there complaints. I have a bad foot so naturally my foot hurt & there was nowhere to sit. Finally when found our table my husband & I were so set alone from our families. The bride & groom knew our families. No one at the table talked to us a first. They were still putting centerpieces together as guest were walking inside & still while guests where seated. The bathroom was small & the sink was broke along with no soap & soap disposer coming apart. The appetizers was good but the buffet style long was long. It's took forever it was a short buffet with long line. The party Bridal took forever to get the hall & the hall runs outs of appetizers. The hall was crowded you had to walk around many chairs to get to your seat. Along with when finally got our food our chicken was cold too salty. Plus the salad was warm. The juice line was long. Lines were long. People at our table complained.

He treats me good in front of family and friends. Our sex life has sadly been declining to 1-2 a month. We're argue a lot. To make matter worse I'm a diabetic. My husband isn't all that great with money & likes to spend over what we agreed on. My husband this paycheck overspent. I was almost not able to get my medicine or supplies. I told him about this he called me selfish his birthday is coming up. He received a Visa card for his birthday. I told him I needed to borrow money. I used the card to get my medical supplies plus medicine. He didn't want me to use it. He got it for free c

Visa. I tried asking him what he wants to do for his birthday all is get

is Nothin. Also yesterday I just found out that he might be going out with his mom. When argued he goes to silent treatments, but this time he turned around & said he didn't care about my medicine. It really hurt my feelings. I've got eye problems related with diabetic. Also my foot has been hurting so I can't walk long without it bothering me. I still work sitting all day. Lately all he does is watch netflix we have a small puppy. He kick her outside our bedroom & ask me to let him relax after work. This has been happening everyday. He has anger problems the last time he got upset & we argued my puppy jump on him to play. He kept hitting and smacked her so hard she fell on the floor then I asked him why he did. He starts arguing and left, we have made up since then and are ok. I'm worried I want our trip vacation to well.

I thought it was my page at first. I didn't notice because sometime our computer still has us logged in. I clicked on the messages & saw his page up. I saw funny videos & pictures he sent her so I clicked on them just to look. We also have each phone passwords & look through each other facebook. I saw pictures with writing & videos about sex plus comments mostly all from him. I was so hurt. We pray to god almost every night together. My husband has anger issues things have gotten better. Lately we argue more over stupid stuff. I'm wondering how to bring this up. I'm hurt I just want their friendship to stop. Lately he been distant wish is why we started praying & reading the bible more. I will admit our sex life was great we went from having sex 3-4 times a week to 1-2 because he tells me tired from work. Lately sex hurts & I feel empathy when I have sex with him now because we don't connect. Please help I want my husband back! Were a newlyweds still a year in & close to our mid 20s in age. I'm not an ugly wife, but I will admit I stopped putting on makeup as much, excerise, & I still do dress nice. Any advice is apprenticed.

I knew he has anger issues before we married I didn't know they are this bad. I didn't live with him before marriage. I ask him to spend more time with me. He claims he too tired to stand up & it's my fault if I don't watch TV shows with him. I ask for only 2 days out of week & Saturday. I ask him why he always blows angry at me & yells & why he rolls his eyes when I ask for hugs or kisses. He used this awful tone if I keep talking with him at times or will make mean comments. We cleaned up our apartment all day & he was irritable. I been holding everything in. So later when he said something I exposed, start crying, & talking about everything. He claims to be happy in our marriage, but I am not. We have some good days, but a lot were getting unbearable to the point I resent him. I tried to talk with him he went in our bedroom & started throwing things. Then I did all the talking & making up. I admit I do nag, but I don't a wife that doesn't. I do talk a lot & get emotional. He doesn't bother talking when he upset. When I cry it gets worse because he hates it. I don't know what to do anymore I poured my heart out telling him how I feel. He just sits there with a blank face then exposes like a volcano when something is said he doesn't like. I asked to please try do better & compromise for the both of us. If anyone has any advice. He was not like this when we're dating. He would listen & comfort me.

My job sent me to the doctor. I sprang & twisted my foot. The doctor had me on crutches, pain pills, therapy, light weight work. Sunday was my husband & I anniversary 1 year. everything was okay. We had a okay time evening together. I had to go back to work. I work as school bus monitor. My husband took off work for a week. I have been hoping around mostly on my foot except he's been cooking. I woke him up today to help me go down the stairs & outside. As it is icy out & stairs are hard with crutches. My husband complaints the whole time. Then said hurry up I want to go back to sleep. My mom was driving me to work & was running late he then stated it should be her responsibility to help me. I told him he's my husband & I live with him. I asked him to stop complaining. It hurt my feelings. I couldn't believe we been married a year & he's acting like this. He didn't want to get up to help me. Saying he took time off work for himself. I explained myself at dinner & he stopped eating & left the table. I'm hoping he doesn't need me some day. Please someone help was I wrong. I

Lately my husband comes home from work gets on his ipad, watch Netflix, or plays a video.game. The only time we spend time together is when we eat dinner, have bible study at home, or watch tv, or go to church. I feel like here physically, but not here with me sometimes. All he's says is tired from work to do anything just wants to relax. I tried talking with him, but he says & stressed. Then he complains about I get to sit down all day at work so I just let him rest. When I ask if he wants to go out the answer is always no. Our sex life has declined to once a week. I have phone password & Facebook. I have found no evidence of cheating. I'm hurt he won't spend time with me. I'm not ugly woman either. Next Sunday is our anniversary. We talk about it. He says has a surprise for me. I'm planning on making it special. We haven't the best year for newlyweds my husband has anger issues. Lately he sleeps a lot. I'm so sad. I tried talking with him. I fake a smile when people ask about the newlyweds life & fake laugh. When were out in public he treats me great. Then we get home he doesn't spend time with me. Please someone help. I'm scared losing interest. If I try to have sex he pushes me off, turns away, fake sleep. I mostly stopped asking for it. Sometimes he gladly makes love with me. Our sex life is good when we have it. Sometimes I touch him & he gets defensive or roll his eyes when ask for hug & kiss. I see it in his eyes he's unhappy, when I ask he's says e everything fine.

Also she will walk behind me. How do I encourage to walk without a leash better. When walking she likes to stop & play she likes leaves. So when she stops it takes us forever to get where were going. Since she not really around other dogs when she sees a big dog she gets scared & tries to run. How do I keep her walking beside me. Also she walks up to strangers, but always comes back to me. I have to constantly watch her cause she so active.

We've been married for 10 months. My husband & I both have low paying jobs. We gross about $2000 each paycheck. He has a full time job that's pays $12 an hour. I have a part time job that pays the same. I do most of the cleaning & cooking plus pay the bills. We have no car & are in the process of buying 1 car. My parents drop us off at work & we pay them money. Recently he told today he would like for me to get a full time job. I told him we in since were getting 1 car. How is that possible when our schedules would conflict. My parents stated they will not take me to work anywhere else in since my mom works at the same place as me. My father cannot absolutely do it. My husband works early in the morning 6 days a week. Their are not many jobs that I can walk to around. I told maybe we get 2 cars I could find something better. I love my job & don't want to leave. We don't have degrees from college so the best you can find is something a full time job that's works you hard. I searched for job & didn't get any. I told him if I have to find a higher paying job then so does he. He complaints & says he doing everything he can. So am I. We stopped arguing & will have a car in s comments weeks. I know people on here will say car pool, that's usually only last until something hits the fan and people get tired.

My husband & I adopted a puppy for his birthday on August 8, 2015. I had grew up as child around adult dogs. This is our first time owning a puppy. It's so tiring. I love her so much & give never give her up. It's like having a toddler mess your house all day. They need so much attention. I spend a lot of time with her & so does husband. Potty trained is tiring. Also she gets into everything & whines when she doesn't get her way. We didn't have a crate or playpen so we put her in a box to sleep. She whined all night. My husband said just put her in the bed. So I picked her up. The problem is she hogs our pillows & like to play at night. Constantly getting up to take her to potty is tiring. I don't get as much sleep. We had an active sex life before we got our puppy. We tried putting on the floor or in the restroom & she goes crazy while trying to have sex. Last week we had sex only 5 minutes because she acted out when we weren't around. Last night my husband was put on the floor she was quiet. We finally were able to enjoy intimacy without worrying about the dog. We have sex least 3 times a week. I realized how much I miss our sex lifestyle last night. By the end she was whining to get back on the bed. She never likes to play alone & it's hard when have small things to do around the house. I'm always running after her. The whining never stops. I love her I'm just exhausted. Any tips or advice appreciated.

I recently got married. I'm 25. Our marriage hit some hardships, but things are better now my parents were there to support me. They helped paid for most of my wedding because they wanted too and said I was a great daughter. Recently I think about them a lot & how much I love them. I will call & text them I love them or keep calling to make sure their okay. My is 62 & dad is 57. My mom is in good health, but my dad has diabetes. He's been sick recently. He lost weight for his health. I constantly worry about them. I cry thinking about them dying the thought of losing them. I cry every once a week it's just terrible feeling. I love them so much. I don't have a bunch a money for them. I'm scared to tell them because the last time. I worry a lot. I had a fear of my nephew after I got married of him falling down the stairs & nephew. He's 2 now. I would call my sister making sure okay. I got panicked every time he went near stairs & cry. I'm afraid of heights. Sometimes I have nightmares at night & my husband wakes me up. I worried about my husband too. We recently bought an 8 week puppy a week ago. Now I'm starting to worry about her too. She helps with the pain of me being scared of losing my parents. I think something wrong with me. I'm scared to tell my husband. He knows I worry. I only lived with my parents before marriage. My 3 sisters don't have this problem. Why me it's so unfair. I do enjoyed my family I just am scared of losing them. Especially my parents.

Please help I have a 7 week puppy that is yorkie mixed with poodle. My husband and love her so much. I'm taking her to the vest on Saturday we had her for 5 days. Every vet we contacted says she cannot go potty training outside until she has her shots. She also cannot be around other dogs because she is more likely to get ill. I'm looking for a way to make pad training easier because it's miserable. I tell her in a calm voice Missy go pee. We are very patient and just clean up the poo and pee. We start clapping our hands if we catch taking a pee or poop on the carpet. I also pick her up and take to the pad. I've been praising constantly when she goes on the pad. What else can we do to make this easier?

Hello my husband and I are adopting a Yorkie poodle mixed 8 weeks puppy tomorrow for my husband birthday.My question I know you how often do take them to outside to use it? How many times do I feed? I also have to get it shots in a week. I will be the main person taking of the dog as in my spouse works a lot. Also I work as school bus monitor so I've a 4 hour break in between. I get up at 5:00 & leave @ 6:00am. I come home @ 9:30am & then go back to work around 1:45 and get off around 4:00pm. Are you supposed to take it to the outside before you leave. What items will we need? I have a lot of time to care for the puppy it will help not feel so lonely while my husband works. Also I have month off work so I can train it. What shots does it need? If someone could please help me I would appreciate it.

My husband & I got married without a car. My parents give us rides to work we pay them gas money. We've talking about buying a car from his brother, but the amount he wanted was too high & payments. We are behind bills that I paid all of along with his check. He doesn't look at the bills. So I talked with someone else about a cheaper car to buy & payments. I told my husband this he agreed. My husband told his brother I didn't want the car it made it seem like it was all my fought. The problem is his family I don't want them thinking bad about me. We argued about this. He didn't want to argue I could tell he was upset. He felt that we could made payments for his brother. I'm the 1 who handles the bills. My husband kept telling me to just drop it. His family is manipulative I just want my husband to have my back & say the truth the payments where to high. His brother was pressing us for money. The car was really old he not a mechanic seen the car nor has checked the mileage. I kept having dreams & getting a feeling we buy the car & it stopped working. My husband didn't want to argue so he stopped talking. I'm in the wrong. We're a low income family. So the place helps with low income bad credit, has mechanic everything. I felt so bad I just want my husband to stand up for me if his family badmouths me for something that isn't my fault. We stopped talking about it. We're going in to look in the car dealership. Please help. I'm so frustrated.

My husband & had tried to have sex. I don't know what went wrong. Usually we get the position right & can do them easily, but the other night we ran out of lube. So he gave me oral like he always does and we kissed & fondled. When tried to have sex everything didn't go in as easily as usual & hurt so much. I had to tell my husband to stop. It's was uncomfortable. Were newlyweds 8 months. We didn't have lots of sex while dating due to religious beliefs. So we're still kinda of new. I don't have a clue what went wrong. My husband seemed so disappointed that night. All the positions we normally tried were uncomfortable. This is especially disappointing because we had sex 2 days before this & love making was amazing. I was hoping it feel that same way & it's didn't so I got a sad. This is the first time it's went like that yesterday. My husband hasn't initiated sex yet chose to cuddle after this. I'm worried about our next love making session and it hasn't even happened yet. I don't want it to go bad again. couldn't make him ***. Please help?

We been married for 6 months. My husband & I have a friend who's a guy. He was in my husband wedding. He wanted to hang out with my husband before the wedding alone & that never happened. He's a good guy & is nice. He helps drive my husband to work because we don't have a car & we pay him gas money. My husband dad came into that I never met so he drove us to go his dad. Then again they hang out my husband invited me along. Our friend left due to feeling uncomfortable of being a third wheel. The issue I have is the way he worded it every time she's comes along I get ignored & you both start doing couples things. This hurt my feelings. my husband doesn't have very many guy friends at all or that he hung out with it. I get it, but our friend wording hurt my feelings. Our friend doesn't have very many friends of his own. He trying to make new ones. Another issue I worry because we are behind on bills right now. We don't have money to go out right. Honestly the guy is really nice my husband will understand because they planning this for a while. I don't want his friend to think I was the reason they can't hang out alone. In reality we just don't have enough. All we have is enough for bills. I know because I'm in charge of finances & he refuses to look. Honestly I don't have a problem with their friendship. They want to go bowling out to eat. Shouldn't the wife be able to tag along with anything being said. It's not my fault they didn't hang out be the wedding.

My husband work s 40 hours every week. I work 25 hours. I do all the cooking, make sure all the bills get paid and mostly all the cleaning. I have to ask him over or nag & I hate it. I work Mon-Fri. Come cook and do small cleaning. I clean the whole apartment on Saturday until hubby gets off work. Our apartment is small it's doesn't take long to clean. I only ask that he helps clean on his days off work such as take out the trash, clean the bathroom, and vacuum. Just pick up after himself. I also ask that he cook one meal every week. We usually go out to eat Sunday. Do not have the luxury to go out all the time. I come home all the time to the same broken promises. He expects me to do more because I work less, but make a lot of money when I talk with him about it. He takes it for nagging. I don't work as many hours as him, but make up for everything else. Our place takes little time to clean. A meal can be made in less 30 mins. I'm so tired on top of all he wakes me up for sex At nights sex is super good, but I'm starting to loss attraction to him. I have to wake my body up for sex. I stopped initiating sex. To be honest I'm happy when don't have and think I could without sex, even though he can't. I don't know if I lost attraction because I don't like him or because he has eczema that has gotten really bad.

Yesterday my husband decided to clean the apartment. We live in a small apartment. There was stuff everywhere. I came home from break helped cleaned a little & left for work again. Came home the place is still a mess. My husband & I had talk about money when he gets paid he's likes to spend I'm not a big spender. We have very little income & lots of bills. I'm a diabetic & we have run out of groceries before all just he likes to spend. I need to eat so I don't go into a diabetic coma. I came he's ordering a new phone. He just ordered one 2 weeks ago. I told him he's needs to discuss large purchases with me & we need to agree. He's gets mad stops talking to me while cleaning. Then turns up his music, play a game, look at his phone & everything, but listen. He will even walk out the room. It's hurts my feelings & if start crying he's yells at me. I try to talk things out then it's gets worse. He's got anger issues. I never lived with him before marriage I guess I was just to blind by love. When first got married he broke the closet door & had broken glasses everywhere because he got upset. Yesterday he almost slammed my hand in the door & hit my hand when I grabbed his phone. He has slammed my hand in the door before. He didn't apology until I kept bugging him he also slams and throws things. I this morning for work I got a small hug. Yes I did nag him a little & do whenever we argue. I am in the wrong? We only been married 5 months had a lovely wedding.

Hello we have been married for 4 months. Today I got call to my mom telling me my dad was in the hospital and was really sick. So me my husband drove with her and we're at the hospital a lot and went her on errands. My husband mom and him made plans to hang out. I was upset because I told him I wanted him to be there to support me and just be there for me. His excuse was he doesn't like hospitals. He invited me to go out with his family, but I didn't want to. He left with his family I was upset. I have set up in the hospital with him when he was sick early in the morning and all day. I would do the same for his family & he could see I was hurt. I thought he would be there for me & he wasn't it hurt so bad. He could have canceled the dinner. Plus the dinner was kind of unsure planned. We have been having rough patches lately, but been getting through them. My father is still in the hospital. I'm confused why my husband wasn't there for me and couldn't understand. It really hurt my feelings and he just sat there with the same look on his face. Please I don't understand. My father and he aren't as close as they used to be, it hurt when family asked where he went? Why he left?

My husband I have been for 4 months. We have a lot of problems. I nag a little too much, but I am a good wife. I cook everyday, keep our place clean, and handle all bills. I have a hard time with my husband spending time with me. He always tired from work. When he gets off of work he takes a shower, maybe watch TV or video game, eat then sleep. Lately he been stressed out about work I try to encourage and support, but he complains so much. My job is as stressful and I love my work. I don't work as much as him, but get the same pay. I will beg him to spend time with me it's always an excuse of too tired. Yet he plays video games or is on his phone. Our sex life is once a week or twice. It doesn't last long. On top all of this he has anger problems where I'll try to talk he'll ignore me. If his anger gets the best of him he yells, screams, says hurtful things,and break things. Some days I regret getting married and resent him. I always nag a least he knew this before he married me. I did not know his anger was this bad, nor a husband that doesn't help with cleaning or cooking, little sex or doesn't spend time with me. For valentines day he got me a $75 dollar gift. It was delivered to my door. I didn't get him anything he wanted nothing. Plus I feel like you should treat the person like valentines day is everyday. He has to work on valentines day. I was happy to get the gift, but would have been happier if spend time with me. He came home ate dinner & lauded in room & slept.

I just got married Nov. 22 2014. We have only been married 3 weeks. We argue all the time, but the problem we are arguing about is his mother tries to stay in our business. Were 24 & 25 ages. His mother & her husband came over the weekend it was hell. I had no idea they were coming until the morning of my husband didn't tel me on top of this I had a hair appointment so they were at our house fixing breakfast with him. I left the house angry & came back home to find our bills & everything everywhere his family came over saying they wanted to help us I was in shock I didn't know any of this. Then told us he appointments setup for us to look at apartments. I told them I was not & my husband has not told me any of this. They left angry at me he demanded I give them apology I refused. This is our first time living on our own. Were are talking things out to see what we wanted to do. I told them I only talked with husband about all this once & know what to do. Well everything was great until he went to the bank with our money. He is now involving his family in our money problems. He talked with & said he wants a annulment and when I text him he tells me he's in a meeting. He doesn't want to come home and keeps telling our issues with family. I am heartbroken he said will call me back after his meeting. He has anger problems be4. I try & cuddle with him & kiss he pushes me away unless he wants sex. He always too tired though. I feel like have made a mistake but I really want us.