Is there any new ideas out there to revive a "lazy bear" husband? I will not divorce (two young sons at home that need their father around).?

The lazy husband has to revive himself ... "he" is the only one who can change himself. If you have not talked to him about it -- do have the talk .. and if the talk doesn't do any good with results -- then it probably won't change.

The story of "The Little Red Hen" comes to mind. If you don't know what it is, look it up on Wikipedia or search for it by that title.

If you won't get a divorce, get used to what you've got. Simple as that.

Only do what he tells you to do. No sinning though. Like he tells you to wash dishes, wash. If he don't, don't wash.

No ideas. If he is a lazy bum he is a lazy bum, get used to it

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