Life advice for a 22 year old male? Please read.?

I'm not in the same exact situation as you however, I'm 23 years old and spent 3 years at a community college by saving money and taking all of my gen ed classes and trying to get a good gpa in order to get into the school of music at the university I wanted to be at. I was accepted into the school in 2013. However, I realized when I got into the program that I was getting my *** kicked by those music classes. I went in for help everyday but there still wasn't any sign of improvement. I ended up dropping out after a year and went back to my community college. I realized I preferred playing music as a hobby not as a job. However, my search for a new major took months and months to find. But I found that I like working with people and found out about occupational therapy. I'm now studying to get into the OTA program and am just a semester away from applying to get in. They only select a certain amount of people to get in. However, every time I get depressed or anxious I realize that there is always a purpose and a meaning for everyone of us in life. I hope I'm not trying to spew my beliefs on you but what helps me is there is a verse in Jeremiah that says "Do you know the plans that I have set for you?" It gives me a sense of authority. Because every time I try to control the problem I'm just submitting to the problem. Again I hope I didn't bible bash you haha! I know this is easy for me to say but try to keep moving and searching for something you love. Like I said there's a purpose for everyone of us. :)

short story about myself. I was 7 when I noticed I had many more friends around when I had sweets. one day I bought a large bag of the smallest sweets I could find and made sure everyone knew. soon I was surrounded. one by one everyone that asked for a sweet was refused. after being called nasty names about 5 girls were left. I told them they were not having any either. one said we don't want your sweets, we are your friends'. we shared those sweets and we stayed friends.

now you have no friends', just drinking buddies' who like you because you spend money. if you can put up with their insults when you say no more not only will you be healthier but you will get your self esteem back. drink is what is making you depressed. then you can start go for your goals in life.

the change starts with you, not with where you live.

Move, you want to do it, it's scary but it will be the best thing you've ever done for yourself. You have to do it fast or you won't do it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2w49_1a9X0Q