Does anybody know any controlling spells?

Yes I do but I would never tell you.

Exodus 22:18

I certainly do. For example, I know how to allow an object to fall out of my hand and straight to the ground purely by the incantation of the gravity spell. Be careful with this spell though, it has been known to occur that some unfortunate incantor/incantrix has warped the very essence of space and time by trying to drop excessively massive objects into the realms of the "elsewhen". Such misadventures have resulted in holes so black that the very substance with which our eyes can see become - nay, even the very substance of material itself - be lost within the tendrils of this Cocytus demesne.

I can only wonder at the heartbreak of Orpheus knowing that his true love Eurydice dabbled in these black arts.

Another spell I know is the spell of not talking out of your ârse; the incantations of which are somewhat complicated (it requires a skill that mere noviciates would not understand - it's called rational thought)