Any idea guys?

He has developed a crush or special feelings for you and now you have the power (this is how he feels) to DESTROY HIM.

I have gone thru this a few times. Best way to handle it, is to keep being the same person/friend to him as before.

If you start to develop feeling towards him:

The following is information you will need one day:

(for this Guy or the next)

TO GET A DATE, WITHOUT HAVING TO ASK: Tell him you know someone that wants to go on a date with him. He'll want to know WHO. Take him by the hand to wherever there is a reflection and standing next to him say "Her" (pointing at your reflection) ------ OR

INVITATIONS and ASKING for a Date are the same thing, but an invitation is easier to offer, rather than ask for a date. Writing a note and handing it to him or having someone hand it to him, will be okay.

Most invitations are in WRITTEN FORM. (add ph# so now He has it)

Tell him where you will be on a certain day and at a certain time.

Let him know he is welcome to join you if he has time.

EXAMPLE: "Hi. I'm going to be at the park by the pond on Saturday at 2:30pm. You're welcome to join me if you have time. I will probably be bored, just feeding the ducks".

EXAMPLE: "I'm going for ice cream after school at (location), you can join me if you're not busy. My treat."

YOU WON'T HAVE TO FEEL EMBARRASSED if He declines.

It was just an invitation, NO BIG DEAL.

HOW TO BE WITH SOMEONE; ONE on ONE

Make wager (bet) with the person you want to spend time with.

Lose that bet to them INTENTIONALLY.

The wager should be something that puts you together alone and

away from everyone you know.

Make the wager something you can afford and non threatening

or too suggestive.

(an ice cream cone, a shake, a coffee, washing a car)

EXAMPLE: "I'll bet you an ICE CREAM SUNDAE, I can say

the alphabet backwards faster than you."

Then LOSE the bet and take him for an ice cream sundae.

(enjoy your Date)

TO HOLD HIS HAND

(you DO NOT have to be on a date, you just have to be near him)

When you have been with him for awhile and are side by side (walking, standing or sitting) gently take his hand and Say: "Can I borrow this for a little bit? I Promise to take care of it and return it in awhile" He will smile and probably be Impressed and Flattered. If he flinches and pulls away, chances are its a REACTION, NOT REJECTION. Smile and give him something of yours as a deposit/collateral and Let him know you want it back when you return him, his hand.

TO GET A QUICK KISS. As long as he is enjoying himself with you. In the middle of a conversation, Smile and say: "Close your eyes, you have something close to them". When he does, Touch your lips to his. Not really a kiss, but it breaks the ice. Then tell him: "Oh, it was just me. You have soft lips, I like that". Keep smiling. Ask him what yours felt like, before he says anything. But keep smiling.

Your biggest FEARS are NOT knowing What to SAY or How to do Something.

It's like taking a test. It's NOT so scary, once you know the answers.

Driving is NOT so scary, once you're behind the wheel a few times.

Same with the Opposite Sex.

Practice and Experience equals, PIECE OF CAKE.

Every BF/GF Relationship that you see, happened because

ONE OF THEM took a chance and spoke up.

EVEN IF YOU LOSE THIS GUY,

This Info Is Still Good PRACTICE For You.

Maybe he's developing feelings for you that he feels won't be reciprocated. Or he found out something about you that makes him uneasy, jk. It's probably the first thing

Just ask him if everything is okay. Guys tend to be less emotional than women.