What would you say to a person who is dear to you, if you visited him/her right after he/she was told they were dying within a month?

idk I think you can only know when you see them

First I wouldn't believe them then after a few minutes I'd be too shocked to cry

Make plans to spend some quality time with them even if it means long visits to the hospital.

Nope

well, we'd better make the most of the time you have left and any longer you might gain with positivity. what can i join with you to make sure you're having a good time today?

I'd spend some time with them.

You are the one who is superficial, you call me shallow with no knowledge of how my boyfriend has treated me, you're a piece of work

Id ask How I could best help them with anything. Then probably just listen.

once id stopped crying id say live your life to the best you can now. right all of your wrongs and be happy for the remainder of your ays

I'd ask them if they want me to do anything for them, or if they want me to stick by their side.

I would tell them that I loved them , and that I was honoured to know them I would thank them for their friendship and let them know that I would be there to the end with them .