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Isit love or not?

Hi,

I have been seeing this man on and off for nearly 4 years. The other day we ended up meeting up. He bought me some food and treated me nicely. When we were together we were laying down gazing into eachother's eyes for minutes on end on two different occasions during the night. He was also staring into my eyes for the full duration that we had sex. We hugged a lot of times during the night too.

I'm confused though. I don't get how one minute he texts me and speaks to me, and the next he doesn't message me for days. He's never told me he loves me, but he does some nice things for me.

Help!

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  • 5 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    I think he does love you, but is confused about his feelings. And since its been four years don't give him anything else unless heconfesses how he truly feels

  • IRP
    Lv 5
    5 years ago

    Id say it seems like you have fallen in love with him or getting their fast while he is no where there. If you are serious about this relationship talk to him and hint that for you its not just sleeping together. Make sure that he knows what you expect out of this relationship and see his reaction.It seems like at this point he considers you someone like friends with benefits.

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