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Sometimes we don't have anything to talk about with girlfriend and we get bored?

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 10 months and at the beginning we were always telling stories, laughing, having fun and we could always do that even when we were just at home. Nowadays it is a bit different, sometimes we just don't have anything to do and we lay in the bed not saying anything or falling asleep, or we just have boring smalltalk. There are always moments when we sudenly start talking about something, but I don't know what to do in those when we are quiet. We have lately started going out into the city more, because there isn;t much to do at home.

I love her and she says she loves me and I would say we are happy, it's just this problem that we sometimes don't have anything to do.

What can we do about this? Is this normal? We see each other only on weekends because of her school beinge elsewere, but we write to each other a lot.

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  • 5 years ago

    Honestly it's bound to happen in time, it happens to everyone. Do either of you have your own hobbies and interests that you could do individually, or your own jobs? That way you can come home with lots more to talk about.

    What about inviting friends around for a games evening or something like that? Just try and liven things up either individually or together :)

    Good luck!

  • 5 years ago

    i think couples are bound to run out f things to talk about eventually so just go out and do some fun things together and you will have loads of things to try and then discuss afterwards! maybe you could google a couples qui or something fun like that to have a list of things to discuss and you can get an idea of new things to chat about!

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