Why do i feel i cannot love a girl yet i get heartbroken? Please read..?

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You're going to think i'm a bad human, i know i am... my self esteem is so low.. when i'm dating a girl i don't tend to date just one, i date a few at a time but i never feel that real connection that I used to when you think you love someone.

Recently me and one of my girls ended it which was kinda mutual and she was a 'take take take' kind of person. When we were dating i never felt a connection but now we've ended i feel more?

I don't understand why i feel like this now? I haven't loved someone in a while, do you think i can get this feeling back?

I'm starting to think that because i don't love myself, my self esteem is low therefore how can i expect someone else to love me

Lexy · Accepted Answer

I think that you should take sometime to work on yourself instead of focusing on girls right now. I don’t think you are a bad person I just think you should really think about who you want to be with and what is best for you

ez2tock2 · Answer

I have had 37 relationships and NEVER once fell in Love.  but i loved them and we made GOOD Memories.
Now I know of one girl.  We are friends and we date.  Never had sex with her, but her I Love.
I don't bother asking WHY.  I just enjoy her, while I have her.

The Football God · Answer

Low self esteem. You know that you can't provide quality so you're settling for quantity.

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Why do i feel i cannot love a girl yet i get heartbroken? Please read..?

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