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Is it too early to think about this stuff?

My girlfriend is 18 I am 17 and we started dating around 4 months ago. We are just absolutely perfect for each other and these 4 months have been amazing. I know we are still extremely young and new into our relationship but we have both agreed that this relationship just feels so right and have very slightly started to talk about well what if this is the one. We honestly feel like we might get to that point and both have openly expressed our desire to get to that point with one another. Is this bad to think about this early?

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  • 3 years ago

    It's youthful and hopeful and sweet and not uncommon. Shows how young you both are that you are thinking and speaking this way so soon. Somewhere in the back of your mind.. please keep in mind that people make fundamental changes in how they perceive just about everything, and every one, between the ages of 17 and 24. So just keep that in mind while you are loving this feeling of falling in love. Shopping for a spouse in high school is a youthful mistake lots of people make.

  • ...one what?

    ...what point?

    This doesn't make sense, but im not 'la di dah' in love so I don't know what youre talking about anyway

  • Every relationship is different so do things at whatever pace is comfortable. I would suggest regardless if she's the one or a fling always wait a few years before marriage. Given how young you both are you will change and develop to completely different people in a couple of years and find your goals and aspirations do not match. Even if you know you're both great people. Take your time but feel free to talk about your future together.

  • 3 years ago

    L O L

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  • J
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    3 years ago

    ok let me tell you something, you are young super young and what's feels perfect right now it will feel not so perfect once you get to know each other, what you are feeling is perfectly normal and as you grow and get more experience you will notice that things aren't always what they look like. Do not think for a minute that this is a done deal for you, for now just enjoy life and your new partner, I know it doesn't make sense right at the moment but trust me here in 5 years you will understand it better.

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