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Son with ADHD very angry in the mornings?

Experienced answers only please, and also no judgements. My 9 year old son was diagnosed with ADHD 3 years ago. Every morning The school gives him his pill around 9:00am because if given early, it wears out before school is finished and this way he is calm and can focus till at least 5:00pm.

Before you ask, we do have an appointment but it’s not till February so I’m desperate for answers. Apparently the paediatrician is out of the office for holidays and his is the only one within 70km.

So he’s been on the same pills for three years. The pills cause him to not be able to sleep at night so at the paediatricians recommendation, we’ve been giving melatonin. I have no idea if this is what is causing his angry mornings. I plan on stopping his melatonin tonight to see if that makes a difference at all. His anger started about two months ago but he’s been taking melatonin for about a year now.

Basically, he comes out of his room stomping his feet, making frowning face at everyone who crosses him. If you instruct him to eat breakfast, get dressed or anything, he screams a quick bark at you. All manners are out the window. And the way he talks to everyone is extremely disrespectful. I have tried grounding, spanking, time outs, removing his favourite toys. Of course this just ends up in an explosion and jumping, kicking, screaming.... I really need help.

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  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

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  • 2 years ago

    I feel this is an act, put on for your benefit

  • 2 years ago

    I have ADHD and I also take medication. It would keep me awake at night too, so I also tried melatonin.

    Melatonin is a natural chemical in the brain that everybody has, so it is almost definitely not the melatonin. Melatonin tablets are also meant to help you STAY asleep, not FALL asleep.

    Having ADHD, I notice in myself that I have increased irritability and frustration when I am not medicated.

    Perhaps your child may need to go up a dose on his medication. Because over the years, his body could begin to get used to the medication, and it could no longer have the same effect that it once did.

  • 2 years ago

    Quit the punishments. Try rewarding the good behavior you see

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  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    A preschool teacher pulled me aside and said my son was to be expelled due to his behavior (he jumped off a loft area to join circle time when called instead of going down the loft ladder) and had trouble paying attention. First kid to get expelled since the school opened in 1969. Oh, great.

    He was officially diagnosed in kindergarten and I was told he would be put in the SEM class (socially, emotionally and maladjusted). So, basically he either had to go on meds or be put in a class where he did not belong (however, that class had the right teacher/student ratio and that is why it was suggested). Fast forward...he was diagnosed with ADD.

    I got all the help I could get and through learning behavior modification techniques and time released medication, it saved my sanity and my marriage, my family and our social lives.

    Personally, I would cut out the sleeping pills and get that child on a trial of time released medication TODAY. Call the doctor and get a prescription change for a trial period. I would do that in a heartbeat.

    Your son is no longer a toddler, so he certainly understands a good talking. During a calm moment, get your husband to sit down with you and your son to discuss him. Ask him questions without telling him what to do or how his behavior makes you feel. This conversation should be ALL about him talking to you about himself. So, gather some pointed questions so you can understand where that child is coming from.

  • 2 years ago

    DOn't bother with any of the silly nonsnce. There's no such thing as ADHD or ADD. You have a spoiled brat who has been given a fake diagnose and you stupidly give him DANGEROUS meds that will do life long damage to his health all so you can make him fit in.

    Throw the pills out and stop using the fake label and be a parent.

    You keep drugging the poor child for being a NORMAL child. Throw all the pills out. He's mad due to you being lazy and drugging him and endangering his health

    He screams at you since you are a neglectful parent who is lazy and drugs him. Throw the pills out and displine him. A belt to the back side will cure his issue alone wiht you tossing the pills away and you stop being disgusting and lazy

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    I think it's important to remember that your son isn't only a kid who has ADHD. He is also just a kid. Not all of his behaviour is directly linked to his ADHD or his meds. A lot of it is just his personality and being a 9 year old boy. He is more than his condition.

    Melatonin isn't known to make people grumpy in the morning. I really doubt that's the cause, especially since he's been using it for much longer than he's been getting out of bed angry.

    Are you sure he's getting enough sleep? Kids' sleep needs change, sometimes they need more sleep for a while, for instance during a growth spurt.

    And speaking of physical development: have you considered that he may be starting the very first stages of puberty? I know it sounds early, but for boys 9 years old is actually (just) within the normal range. There may be some changes in body chemistry he needs to get used to.

    Anyway, this isn't fun for him either. I would try to help first, discipline later. He doesn't WANT to feel this way.

  • LizB
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    Have you tried *asking* him why he feels so angry in the morning rather than automatically reacting with punishments? I know if I woke up cranky in the morning and people started yelling at me for being in a bad mood, it wouldn't improve my mood at all, it would just make me angrier and more likely to pick a fight.

    TALK to him about this, not first thing in the morning but when he's awake and calm. Ask him what he thinks is making him feel so grumpy in the mornings. Does he wake up still feeling tired? Does he feel groggy and confused? Does his alarm startle him awake? Is it too unpleasant or loud? Does his body feel sore because his bed is uncomfortable? In other words, *first* figure out if the problem is something fixable, like a side effect of his meds or something in his sleeping environment that could be changed. Then work *with* him to see if the problem can be fixed.

    In the end, you might just have to accept that your 9 year old just isn't a morning person and needs a little space to get his brain going in the morning. And really, he's 9, he shouldn't need to be nagged about getting dressed and eating breakfast every step of the way anymore. He knows he's supposed to do that, so as long as he manages to get ready for school on time, let him do things his own way.

  • Blonde
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    My advice, and I’m not a doctor.

    1. Replace current med to Concerta, time release, not more than 36 mg, it lasts about 9 hours. Also request Ritalin 10mg to use if needed, in evenings or weekends and if he forgets Conserta pill, after noon or so. They have a lifespan, the time on a clock must be your guide. Aderal causes mental issues, Conserta is old fashioned Ritalin, reformulated as a time release and Ritalin has been on the market for over 60 years with little to no side effects recorded. This way, he takes it in the mornings, by 7:30 am before he leaves the house.

    2. Diet. Please research holistic things to help him manage his ADHD, avoid glutens, MSG, and high fructose. Try to go whole foods only, and health food stores often have ‘junk food’ made from natural ingredients. Give a daily vitamin that contains niacin...don’t skip a day.

    3. Read up on ADHD. Ten percent of the adult population has some form of ADHD, and in kids, half outgrow it when the brain matures at about 15 or so..that means 20% of kids struggle with this. You are not alone, there are techniques. And tricks he can learn to over come ADHD, to minimize its negative impact on his life meanwhile embracing it as a competitive edge that can be explored.

    4. Please be aware of ‘side-disorders’ that may rear their ugly heads in your son..they are a result of non-treatment of ADHD, such as OCD, ODD (which can manifest as violence), mood disorders, and other issues like anger, frustration, and PTSD.

    5. Don’t lose your cool. It’s easy to do with these kids, there is a reason they need the Ritalin. It’s so others will treat them better, stop the bullying, and make them more receptive to learning in school. I know a grown man, in the military, works on aircraft, that takes Concerta to treat his adult ADHD. He says he cannot focus without it and the military is ok with it. To him, he compares it to wearing sunglasses on a sunny day..he can see better. :)

    It sounds like your son is not aware of how his ADHD effects him, he is acting out his anger and frustration. May I suggest taking him out, after dinner, to go ‘run it off’ so he can sleep better. In the olden days, he would labor on the farm all day and have no sleep issues. Get him a bike, toss a football, jump rope, anything to help him burn off that energy. Then get a bath, nice hot soapy water...he will drop like a rock. No, punishing doesn’t work. Be real with him. Study ADHD on-line, from several sources. He sounds quite typical for a nine year old with ADHD, that has had no behavior modification. Again.you are not alone. Hope this advice helps.

  • PR
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    I would suspect the actual ADHD meds. He may have reached a level beyond tolerance? Regarding melatonin, it is advised in most literature to take one week off, during each month, to my knowledge.

    Remember the meds are mainly a form of narcotics, so take it from there.

    Also, during a calm time, find out whether there is something going on at school?

    My son was like that a lot. We learned it was a result of food sensitivities. Peanut products were a real contributor to outbursts. Once removed from diet, outbursts stopped.

    Consider what he's eating before bed. If he has a favorite snack, that may be part of the problem.

    Read books by Dr. Doris Rapp (used, online) for lots more info.

    I would also ask the pharmacist. They can be very helpful, and are there during pharmacy hours. They know the meds and can often help with questions like this.

    Try elimination diet. Read the books.

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