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Do you think it's a good idea to save yourself for marriage?
As in not have sex until you're married? Should sexual intimacy be saved for 1 person only? What are your thoughts?
What about saving your first kiss for your wedding day?
17 Answers
- LivinrawguyLv 72 years ago
Personal opinion no to all of the above. The reality is this chemistry in all areas is kind of the glue in a relationship not knowing if you have it could cause chaos on the wedding day. It could feel like your kissing a sibling than a soulmate. I think it also a good idea to find out if the one your with is compatible sexually as well take precautions use protection but in reality if your going to spend your life with them better find out don't you think. I think it a good idea to wait till you find on you think may be the keeper no promiscuity or sleeping around. Kissing is like 1st base it lets you see if you want to make it something serious or just friendship.
- ?Lv 72 years ago
It's impossible to know if someone is sexually compatible with you until you've established an intimate relationship. So no I don't think it's a good idea to find out on your wedding night that it doesn't fit, that his idea of sex is a lot rougher than what you're comfortable with or that he has some mandatory kinks you're unwilling to fulfill. Kissing is somewhat less important so if you want to save that for the wedding, go for it.
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- 2 years ago
I am a christian so I think we should save ourselves until we are married. However, I think that kissing can be done before marriage. That is what I think.
- PhilosophyAddictLv 72 years ago
No I don't. I may have a few regrets in life, but enjoying the hell out of my sex life isn't one of them. And I agree with i + I that waiting for a first kiss until marriage is ridiculous
- 熊冰冰Lv 72 years ago
A good idea in what sense? It's not going to make your marriage somehow better or more fulfulling.
- Anonymous2 years ago
Personally, no. I know people who did that and are sexually incompatible and don't know how to communicate about sex. Usually incompatibility with sex can lead to breaking up