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I went out with a girl who Apparently has a boyfriend. my friend who knows her friend told  my friend tgat she has a BF.? ?

However there is no relationship status on Facebook. So I took her to this Italian restaurant in Manhattan and she insisted on paying. I told her I’m paying so she insisted on tipping so I let her tip. My friend who is friends with her friend told him to tell me she is only going out with me as a friendly outing. But why would she go out with me if she’s with someone and why wouldn’t she tell me I have a boyfriend and me and you are friends. Because I really like her she has that sweet nice I like video games and sports. And she has a asian American twist and I think that is so hot. But I am super shy to make a move if I’m being told she’s with someone. What should I do

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  • Be upfront. Say hey I really like you but I heard you're in a relationship. I'd like to take you out again but if that's true let me know and I won't bother you.

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    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    You should stop paying attention to the gossip hotline.  Her friend who talked to your friend who knows his friend, or whatever, can't be trusted.  Too many relay points, too many people who probably don't know what they're talking about.  

    Never trust any information you got from a friend of a friend, no exceptions.  According to a friend of mine who is friends with a friend of my ex girlfriend (affectionately known as Satan), her friend's friend assured her that she said my wife and I are broken up and my ex and I hang out all the time.  And none of them had even thought to inform my wife or I of this update, which you'd think we would need to know.  That's the thing with friends of friends, they just believe whatever their friend-of-a-friend tells them.

    You know all those idiots who get arrested on Live PD because they think they know the law better than the cops?  All of those morons, every one, got their info from a friend of a friend.  Don't be that guy.

    When you asked this girl out, did she mention anything about having a boyfriend?  Then it's not your friggin' problem.

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