See ex fiancee when married?

Don't meet him. The past is the past and if you met him, you'll stir up too much stuff that your marriage may not be able to handle. Just don't go there.

Don't see him and don't email or have any contact with him.  What do you hope to achieve by staying in touch with him...it's over you can't be friends with an ex especially when you have a husband.  Your husband should fill that place.

M advice to you is not to meet him.  You're married, and your husband should find you trustworthy.  If you did this, he would wonder.  This guy sounds like a manipulator.  Drop the idea, and drop him.

No point in it.  So *now* he regrets cancelling the wedding - six freaking years ago?

If he was an alkie, and trying to make amends, he could do that by email. (I wouldn't hold my breath.)  

Other than that, I wouldn't bother. I met with someone who dumped me. You know what he wanted to apologize for? He wanted to apologize for our sex life, because now that he had a new girlfriend, he knew how wonderful sex could really be, because "Susie" had taught him to be free and uninhibited.

Avoid immortality & live your life peacefully!

I would not go, there is no point is there!

Why would you risk your marriage by doing that? Or even exchanging e-mails? Your guy not keeping you satisfied? I can tell you 1 thing if your husband is an alpha male, you're playing with fire.

you really dont need it,he had his chance to marry you....show some morals here

You already screwed the guy I'm sure and plenty others.  Where were your morals then.  Did marriage suddenly make you find them?

Get the coffee (aka sex) and move on.

Ask your husband if it's okay with him, or only meet him if your husband also wants to come along.  If you've been emailing him behind your husband's back, you should sendt him just one more email and that's it: "It's over between us and I've moved on.  Don't contact me again.  I won't answer you."