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Is she just lying to fob me off?

A woman once liked me alot, she got back in touch, we kissed first meeting, then I had to cancel next date to fix cupboard, she then cancelled dates after, but she still was interested seemingly. She has kids btw. Anyway she then said she has depression spells and sometimes needs to shut off. She then started ignoring my messages, I panicked after days and informed her of my feelings, she then unignored me and said she would phone later, but she didn't. Days later my family member died and I contacted her telling her, she then 'unghosted' me so she could say that she was sorry about it, I then told her that if she wanted the past to be in the past and no longer have contact with me that I would be ok with that, she said that I shouldn't be offended and that she had given up on talking with anyone in that respect as her 'head wasn't in it', I asked to keep in touch and she said 'ofcourse'. But no contact has resumed.

Is this all just a fob off?, is she lying? Is it just me?

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  • Anonymous
    4 months ago

    Couldn't have put it any better than feistysmartlady, she deserves BA, most definitely.

  • 4 months ago

    cancelling to fix a cupboard? that could have waited. nobody in their right mind puts off a date for something that can wait. it means the date is not important to you and it is rude. and why would anyone sensible want a woman who has problems with depression. you cant help her and you arent up to coping with it. 

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