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Was I right to leave him? ?

I work hard and managed to buy an apartment after years of saving which I made look nice, but remain humble in my attitude towards life. I started dating a guy who lived in a different neighbourhood renting an apartment which is in a bad state. I never judged when visiting him. Thing is - he kept dropping comments like 'I don't like your area' even though its a really beautiful and safe neighbourhood where people aspire to live. He also said I look my age / a little older, even though everyone else says I look much younger (I eat healthy and exercise daily). He then said I'm gonna come to your apartment and chill..I'm sure you'll be cool if I make a mess there. I felt he was putting me down in subtle ways and also said 'my ex earned more money than you!', so I politely ended it. Why would he have done this? He could have been happy dating a girl who has her act together and who is responsible...

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  • Anonymous
    2 months ago
    Favorite Answer

    From the sounds of things this guy seemed a little jealous and intimidated by your accomplishments. You are obviously a high achiever and you should be proud of all these wonderful things that you have attained. Unfortunately not everyone feels the same and can be threatened. Instead of trying to improve themselves and achieve the same they want to bring you down to their level. My advice would be to leave this guy; you do not need that negative energy in your life. 

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    because he's toxic and hates himself 

    i'm actually surprised you dumped him. most girls just stay and take it... too afraid to do anything. 

  • Audrey
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    Be glad you dumped him. He sounds like a first class jerk!

  • 2 months ago

    Ending it was the right thing to do. You want to be with someone who loves and respects you.

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