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Going thru divorce but husband won’t stop texting me?

I can’t have a normal convo with him, without him texting me about sexual things. He still wants sex form me and I tell him no and he still bugs me about it. He’s trying to bribe me with taking me to court or we have sex. He will nonstop text me about sex stuff and it’s so annoying I ignore him. Idk what to do ?? Will or can this go against him in court at all

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    You can block his number and continue the process of the divorce and move on with your life.

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    Tell him he can do cunnilingus on you but no penetration.  

    Source(s): Ivanka Trump
  • 2 months ago

         In the US we have what is called ' no-fault' states and fault states which say what someone has done or not done matters.  In the no-fault states, it doesn't matter as long as it hasn't been too serious.

         So in a no-fault case, all the judge would do is tell him to knock it off. Unless you can block his texts that is about all you can do. He must think he can leverage you by running up the lawyer's fees. 

         Divorce is a dirty game and you shouldn't expect it to be otherwise.

    If he threatens you or hurts you take pictures and get a restraining order. But even that may not last forever depending on the state. Other-wise you will just have to wait till some fool comes along and he gets interested in her. Grampa B

  • ?
    Lv 4
    2 months ago

    I don't know which of you wanted the divorce. If it was him he should not be texting you about sex. When i went through my divorce I wanted to remain friends and we did. To me just because you get a divorce doesn't mean you can't be friends. There are certain things that should not be talked about if you remain friends.

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  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    Why haven't you blocked him?  Sure, you can save copies of the texts, but the 1st thing you'll be asked is why this hasn't been done.  Also, I don't know what you mean about him threatening to take you to court.  Aren't you going anyway?

  • 2 months ago

    As he's texting you and requesting sex during a divorce, you should make these texts available to your attorney as he'll know just what to do about them. I would suspect that he'll get a restraining order forbidding him from further contact. In court, this will not be taken favorably for him as it could definitely go against him. I would not answer the texts if I were you.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    If he's harassing you your lawyer could introduce this as reason for you to get a restraining order or in the furtherance of him being denied visitation with any children you may have. If he can't participate in the settlement negotiations without attempting rape by coercion you may have to just take yourself out of the situation and let your attorney speak to him on your behalf. 

  • 2 months ago

    What is he going to take you to court for?  Not having sex?  

    I'd just delete all the texts he sends from now on and not even open them.  Ignoring him is the best thing to do.  

    If he's harassing you and you feel threatened, file a restraining order against him, i guess.

  • 2 months ago

    Just block his number, and tell him if he wants to get in touch with you that he needs to do so via your lawyer. Furthermore, tell him the cost of the lawyer's time for anything not specifically relevant to the divorce case will be billed to him.

  • Murzy
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    Block him and only take phone calls that are about your children.

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