Do you think a decent, hard working man deserves to be rewarded with a hot meal, a massage and some good sex after a hard day's work?

If this hardworking man can afford to have a cook, a masseuse and a sex worker just sitting at home all day waiting for him that's plausible. But most hardworking men are married to equally hardworking women who would also like to have a hot meal and a massage waiting for them. So I guess it just all comes down to the lifestyle you can afford to pay for. 

I would like a nice cold greek salad a shower and a nap.  Honestly i could take or leave sex but right after work i am tired and massages tickle

you sound like the ultimate bellend. but of course, it's always these that get the women aint it.

If his wife doesn't work and they have no kids, maybe a couple times a week?

1950 called. They don't want you, either.

Maybe if by the time your wife got home from work, dinner would be fixed and the kids fed and put in bed, you just MIGHT get your wish.  

In your father's dreams. Wives work these days.