How can women go on Facebook complain about the lack of dominant men but then get excited watching videos of men proposing on their knees?

One of the most submissive things a man can do is propose marriage. Society makes it seem like this is what most women want but if this is true why don't they act like it? Being Mr.Sensative is a huge turn off yet Hollywood is always pushing this idea that women find emotional men attractive. When in reality, nothing could be further from the truth. Why does it seem like in many ways men are constantly being set up for failure? We are brought up to believe so many things about women only to discover most of it is all lies. Women are not instinctively more compassionate or caring. They can be as cold-hearted or evil as any man. Perhaps even worse. They are not better communicaters, you are expected to just know what they want without ever having a conversation about it. Never ask questions always assume, but you better make the correct assumption or there'll be hell to pay. 

Whenever there's a problem within society it always the men's fault because women can do no wrong. I'm so tired of this narrative. I'm not suggesting we should just blame everything on women either. Isn't there enough blame to go around or does it have to be 100 percent your fault vs. 100 percent mine? Could it be no one's fault? How can we get women to also actually care about what men want instead of just the men caring about what women want? At the very least, shouldn't our actions be meant to attract those of whom we desire? Would a man go to a gay bar to meet women?