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Should I kiss my girlfriend and pet her even though she said no?

We started dating and after discussing politics I asked her if I could hug her, tease her and kiss her on the lips and she said no. I attempted to kiss her twice and she walked away, sat down and cried. She told me to "go upstairs" and I wanted to yell at her like a madman but I don't want any trouble so I just went upstairs like she said. Later that day, I found her sleeping in the same bed as my mom and stepdad and brother.

I seriously want to force my girlfriend out of my family's bedroom and get her into my bedroom.

Update:

When I was younger, my stepdad told me when a woman says no, she means yes — but only if I'm in a relationship or married to her.

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  • Hayley
    Lv 5
    2 weeks ago
    Favorite Answer

    No means no. Respect her wishes. Regarding your update, do not disregard her consent. 

  • 2 weeks ago

    "No NEVER should mean YES !" End of story.

  • T J
    Lv 7
    2 weeks ago

    Better yet, get this nut out of your life.

  • 2 weeks ago

    If she doesnt wanna kiss then you need to respect that. Its not just about you a relationship is for TWO people not just one.

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  • Anonymous
    2 weeks ago

    1. No means no. Always. Even if you've been married for 50 years.

    2. Your stepdad is an idiot.

  • 2 weeks ago

    I seriously want to force my girlfriend out of my family's bedroom and get her into my bedroom.

  • 2 weeks ago

    The incoherent ramblings of a lonely little boy trying very hard to convince total strangers he has a gf..... laughable, really

  • Anonymous
    2 weeks ago

    So in your little storybook nonsense world, why does your so-called "girlfriend" live at your house?

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 weeks ago

    If you do not respect your girlfriend's request to say no to something, then she will not be your girlfriend for long.  I been married 40 years and know sometimes a woman just need to be left alone. 

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