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women only!!! guy is confused needs advice?

I need advice on dating and women in general

All men give me is basically treat her like crap , talk about her physical features alot, touch those physical features when they are open (sounds like a sexual harassment lawsuit and/or a healthy spray of mace). Talk sexually to her until she caves in. They just refer to women as bitches.

Women tell me to be respectful, talk to them about general stuff (books, movies music art).  DO NOT touch them without permission. Do nice stuff for her. Stimulate her emotionally (send her flowers, write poems, gently hold her hand (DO NOT grab her y the wrist and lead her around) compliment her. Always try to compromise and not to dominate her. Make her happy and love her for who she is and not try to maker into who you want. 

im defintely the latter. My guy friends torment me for being this way. Sure they have a new gf every other week. I would rather have maybe 1-3 long term healthy relationships my whole life than have a different girl every other week. Quality over quantity. I want to have relationships and learn about and appreciate a woman even though we have differences. I care about them. They don't. what do I do?

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  • 4 days ago

    Drop those dudes, like for real, they’re toxic af, the second way of treating women was great. Treat women like normal people, use the directions and general guidelines and you’ll do great, also listen to what they have to say, communication in relationships are extremely important. 

  • Anonymous
    4 days ago

    I'm not sure I understand. You just told us that women have already told you how we want to be treated, and according to you that's the way you would treat us anyway. So what kind of advice do you need beyond that? Do you really need us to tell you what you seem to already know?

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