This guy does not want to meet in person, what should I do?

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I'm a middle-aged woman, I met a guy on a site. He is younger than me. He has slight autism. He shows no interest in meeting in person at all. He purchased me lingerie recently and wanted me to show him how I looked in it and wants to flirt with me. He texts me everyday to say hello and to have short conversations through text only.

I am contemplating telling him that I'm having a couple of people over. A couple of guys have asked me out. I feel like I am too available. Is this okay to do? This guy told me before that he doesn't want to meet. He said he doesn't like to meet in person.

Annakutty · Answer

Do you want to meet up in the summer when I come to the US Dia? T j n

seedy history · Answer

You're never meeting him. Trying to make him jealous is unbecoming to you. You either play his game or get the heck out of it. You are not going to meet.

g · Answer

Why would you tell him lies? He's not interested in meeting people in person - are you thinking your silliness would change that?

Anonymous · Answer

WTF?  Are you honestly this desperate?  If your goal is to have an actual relationship, then this is not going to pan out.  Any person that tells you up front that he doesn't want to meet you is basically informing you that you are wasting your time.  Use your head...this guy just wants to get off without having to be invested in any way.  Telling him anything to make him jealous is going to backfire on you   Let him go and find someone who really wants actual human contact.

Barry · Answer

I hate to have to say that due to his innate shyness he probably jerks off over the lingerie pics. You can invite him to visit. At least you will know the true situation. Of course you should go on dates.You can set the rules after all.

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This guy does not want to meet in person, what should I do?

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