Kate

So this guy and I became friends on a video game and you can chat on the game. Whenever I log on he always says hi and asks whats up and he always wants to help me out and talk to me. He said next time he logged on he would give me his number or social media so we can talk. He said he will make me laugh. We've been friends on the game for a few weeks now. I think he likes me but I need an opinion preferably from another guy. Thanks so much! :)

We were at a party and he has a girlfriend, I ve known both of them for a while before they started dating and their relationship isn t too good I don t even see why they re dating. We were in the room and it was only us and he tried to pour me a shot, I refused, and he wanted me to pour him one so I did. He kind of kept an eye out for me all night. We aren t really that good of friends. What is he getting at?

Me and this girl have been best friends for 16 years. She started getting close with this other girl (whom nobody likes and is a bad person and bad influence) and started telling me lies and talking about me behind my back. I confronted her and she just ditched me as a best friend and replaced me with her new bad person bad influence friend. I have always been there for her and have always been a good friend, can someone please help me with reasons as to why this happened? What should I do? I do miss our friendship but at the same time I don't know if things will ever be the same.

I always get stared at by guys but they never talk to me. I dyed my hair and now even more stare to the point where my family notices whenever we go out somewhere. I just feel really awaked - am I supposed to pretend like I don't notice them or something? I'm not very intimidating, I don't get why they don't say anything or at least smile. I personally don't think I'm ugly but I don't think I'm pretty, kind of just average. It just confuses me why I get so many looks. It happened before I dyed my hair too so I don't think thats it.

Help, I am so frustrated! There is this guy and since my freshman year of high school he has stared at me whenever he sees me! I have never talked to him and he's never talked to me but we do have a lot of mutuals. He has made sighing noises at me too and my friends have all noticed that he stares at me so its not paranoia or anything. The other day I was walking and he rolled his eyes at me and my friends all asked me why he did it. I DONT KNOW! Can someone please tell me what his issue is? I don't think he has a girlfriend if thats important but why pick on me?

I will be walking down the hallways at school and all of a sudden for no reason I will desperately gasp for breath. Its almost like my lungs just have a little malfunction. It happens almost everyday, never in my sleep though only while awake. It is really scary because I start to hyperventilate and it feels like I just can't get enough air into my lungs. I have to rush to my class so I can sit down and catch my breath. Please help, it can be really scary when you feel like you aren't able to breathe right.

I really like this guy I met. I'm still not quite done with high school and he is in college. He is almost exactly 4 years older than me, slightly less. I love his personality and talking to him even just being around him makes me so happy. I work with him during the summer. We became friends but aren't super close or anything. He told his mom about me - he said he couldn't have worked without me and that I was a big help. I really can't stop thinking about him and its annoying because I'm sure he has plenty of girls at college to occupy his time. What am I supposed to do about this?

I am still a minor and my parents have always been fighting. My mom has always favored my younger brother and she has a mean streak in her and my dad has tons of mental issues to the point where all he is able to do is go to work and sleep. I don't fit in where I live, I hate everyone here and nobody is nice. I don't even like my friends anymore - they are all changing and becoming mean. My parents are in the process of getting divorced and they never should have even gotten married and my mom always says she never loved my dad. I really do hate both of them and I hate their relatives too. I am always being put down by my mom who I currently live with but I don't want to live with my dad because he isn't any better, he's more strict and scares me. I've wanted to attempt suicide multiple times before and my mom suspects I have depression and is mean to me about it saying how it makes me not able to do anything with my life. I just hate my life and I want to get out of this stupid area and away from my parents. What should I do?!

Guys always look at me and some make it obvious that they like me but they never ask me out! It's a little frustrating because there is no way I am making the first move. But so far none have even tried asking me out. And also what does it mean when a guy and his friends are all looking at you and as soon as you notice them looking they turn to each other and start talking? That's been happening to me at work a lot lately and I don't think they are saying anything bad about me because I'm friends with a lot of my coworkers but still what does that mean?

I have been using windows for about the past 15 years and I used to love it. Windows XP was my favorite, and I liked Windows 7. But this new Windows 8 is the worst creation ever. I have had it with windows 8 and the way Microsoft is going with all these useless apps and mystery updates. I am getting a new laptop soon and am seriously considering getting a MacBook pro. I will be doing a lot of internet browsing, essays on Microsoft word and some powerpoint projects, a lot of editing photos and videos, and drawing on photoshop. I will also be doing a tiny bit of games like maybe minecraft. Would an apple laptop suit these needs or should I stick with frustrating windows 8? By the way I'm unfamiliar with macs because I've been using windows my whole life. Thanks for any advice!

I was wondering what program I could use to make a video like:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ej7U3f1KRRk

I saw this and thought it was really calming and it inspired me. Is there a free video editing program I could use to do this? Besides iMovie because I do not own a Mac. I am talking about the circle of video amidst the white background effect. Thanks!

There is this guy that has been staring me down in the hallways since the beginning of the year. Its actually creepy, my friends have pointed it out too and asked why he always looks at me. He was once hanging out with my friend and some other people and told my friend he thinks I'm pretty cool yet he has never talked to me. Sometimes when I am walking behind him on my way to class he will turn around, look at me, and turn back around again. He is weirding me out, why does he do this?! And if he does like me why wont he just say something? He never talks to me only stares.

This has been happening for a long time and recently its gotten to the point where I get so sad out of nowhere that I get suicidal. I will be sitting there in class or at home and all of I sudden I start to get really depressed and I want to be alone in my room. When I was younger it was never that bad and what used to happen is that I would look back on really happy memories and get really sad that I will keep on getting older as time goes on and that we only are given one childhood to learn and grow and it makes me just want to relive the memories over and over. I am seeing a therapist but I don't feel comfortable telling her that I get depressed like this and I really hate her she just makes me stressed. Can somebody please help me with these overwhelming feelings?

My friend and this guy are dating, he never said so but it looks pretty obvious. I hang out with my friend during lunch and she is always with him so we started talking and became friends. Now whenever my friends boyfriend sees me with another one of my guy friends he kind of glares at the guy I'm with and doesn't acknowledge either of us almost like he's jealous and he has a nickname for me and always says hi in the hallways. Is he just watching out for his girlfriend along with her friends or is there something going on here?

So I don't have any classes with this guy and he's a junior and I'm a freshman but he seems really outgoing and apparently he has a big ego. He is good friends with one of my friends too. But he just kind of glares at me in the hallway. I never really said or did anything to him so I don't know what his problem is with me. He doesn't break eye contact or smile so I usually get weirded out and look away. One time he was walking in front of me and he just turned around made eye contact and then just kept walking again. Seriously though what is with this guy? And since he's into acting and stuff you'd think he would at least be able to approach me if he had a problem... right?

I'm a freshman in highschool. I've had over a month of sick days since school started. I just can't force myself to get up in the mornings. I'm always late or just don't go at all. I'm always tired even if I go to bed early and get sleep so I just stay up late because honestly what's the point anyways? My grades last quarter were failing in some classes and I dropped off my sports team because I hate doing sports. I do have friends but all my close friends either switched schools or have no classes with me. This has been going on since middle school after my parents split but I don't think it has anything to do with that. I feel like we get way to much work in highschool and I just can't handle it. All I want is to get into a decent college and get a decent job but how can I do that when I can't get out of bed? Somebody please help.

I've been having friend troubles lately. We are both girls. She has always told lies but she was telling less than when I first met her. She stole one of my gaming devices and had it in her room for a year before I took it back one day when sleeping over at her house. Since then we have only hung out once or twice, and she stopped talking to me all together. Also her old instagram was hacked but she made a new one and followed me on it... why is she acting like this? We used to be such good friends and now she is acting really weird and I never did anything. Someone please help I just want to go back to being good friends again one day.

I'm almost 15 and 5 ft 10 inches and last time I checked I weighed in at 130 pounds with clothes on. My legs have some muscle on them but for some reason they still jiggle? Also I used to work out and have muscle on my stomach but I stopped and I can't tell if I have a little left over muscle or fat on my stomach. I just want a flat stomach or one with muscles and my arms are also sort of muscular. What do I do? If I work out will that help flatten or tone my belly? Also I think I have a little fat on my cheeks and it makes me self conscious. Any advice please? I'm a girl in case you couldn't tell. :)

I just made a new friend and he is very nice and seems happy. But someone I know said they have talked him out of suicide a couple of times before and I cant help but notice he has self harm scars all over his legs and arms. We arent very close yet but it looks like he has been through a lot but he seems so happy whenever I see him. If he shows me his scars or comes to me one day and is feeling depressed what do I say? I usually just pretend I dont notice his scars because it would be rude to ask.

So theres a guy at my camp and he seems interesting and my mom works at the camp in the office. His dad is the owner so he and my mom are friends and we've talked before but only stuff like introducing each other and he helped me with something one time but sometimes I see him staring at me only it doesn't look like a friendly stare. Why is he doing this?