*~*sarah*~*

I have a question about breeding I have two chows and I keep them together in a pin (20 x 20) so they have enough room to run. I want them to breed but her breeding cycle has come and gone several times and they have not bred. I have seen where other breeders keep their male and female apart. Was wondering if there is a reason for this and if keeping them together is causing them to not try and breed when it s time.

I have a question about breeding I have two chows and I keep them together in a pin (20 x 20) so they have enough room to run. I want them to breed but her breeding cycle has come and gone several times and they have not bred. I have seen where other breeders keep their male and female apart. Was wondering if there is a reason for this and if keeping them together is causing them to not try and breed when it s time.

Me and my coworker are together all day at work 8 hrs. We both work as medical specimen collectors. She started 3 weeks before me, but acts like she runs the show a lot of time. My boss has told me he's appointing me as head MA how ever lets no one know this so essential it means nothing (other words when something happens im supposed to be a rat and let him know everything). My fellow coworker was caught punching in and getting paid for time she was not there leaving me to do work for two people this went on for over a week till I blew the whistle. We are contract work so the office we work at we really don't and cant associate with the other ppl there. She makes 4 dollars more an hour then me yet I do the majority of the work considering I do the ordering part which require a lot of technical skills. My job doesn't bother me its actually easy, I could do her job and mine no problem and did for the time she was out over something every week. It does bother me however that I feel like I am treated like a peon to her. She has referred to me as her assistant in the past which is not true plus she claims to be Sr. MA. All this is untrue my boss said when I started that the position is flexible we make up our own schedule and we perform as our own bosses just working together. I believe since I have started this job this woman has caused me to become depressed.

So my husband has three older daughters in their 20s and then we have our kids 8y/o and 8 months. My daughter had her birthday party at the local rec swimming pool. Lots her friends showed up that was a success. I (mother) was left to serve all the children passing out the cake and ice cream hell I did it all. Very much unorganized chaos. Anywho we didn't sing happy birthday to her because she didn't have a candle and no one was really paying attention all her sisters and farther and their boyfriends standing in a social circle talking ( not paying attention to her or anything) AWKWARD while all her friends parents looked on to me as I was trying to get everything rolling. While she opened her presents her family (my daughters sisters and dad) didn't even watched and then they would tell me to have her to open their gifts so that they could hurry and leave because they had work and other things to do. I find this very rude not only to my daughter but also to me. I felt like they didn't care really about her party ( I know my daughter had a good time because she had so many of her friends their) but its so stressful for me and aggravating because his family the only family we have has no consideration and doesn't care to help. It makes me not want to though another birthday party again.

So I have a sister that's about to et married. She has invited me and my family but is not inviting our older brother and his family. I live thousand miles away and will have to drive there to visit her and the rest of my family. I text my sister( that's how we usually communicate) and told her I would come to her wedding of course but that I also want to go visit my brother and his family while I am there. I said that it kinda puts me in an awqured position because I'm not sure they even know of the wedding. I then asked her how would she handle the situation? What did she think? She answered by saying

"Well i probly wouldnt come honestly"

What do you guys think? I kinda feel like her response was insensible and a little rude.

So I have a sister that's about to et married. She has invited me and my family but is not inviting our older brother and his family. I live thousand miles away and will have to drive there to visit her and the rest of my family. I text my sister( that's how we usually communicate) and told her I would come to her wedding of course but that I also want to go visit my brother and his family while I am there. I said that it kinda puts me in an awqured position because I'm not sure they even know of the wedding. I then asked her how would she handle the situation? What did she think? She answered by saying

"Well i probly wouldnt come honestly"

What do you guys think? I kinda feel like her response was insensible and a little rude.

I have been with my boyfriend for 9 years. I moved here 700 miles away from my family and friends to be with him. All I have here is his family. I don't have friends or anything. We have two children 7 y/o and a 2 month old. He has 3 other children in their early 20s with children of there own. I feel like his family does sweet thing for each other such as fathers day parties, birthday parties, baby showers... But over the nine years I have been in this family I have graduated from college, had two children, have celebrated mothers day 9 times and have never had a party let lone any knowledgment for me at all. Is it normal to be unimportant to your significant others family? I would assume having no family of my own here they would try and make me feel more accepted.

So when I was 18 I moved from my home town 700 miles away to a different state. I left my family friends and everyone and thing I knew for a man. I became pregnant had my first child with in a year. Because I had no family or friends I had no baby shower. He has three older daughters near the same age as me now 9 years later they have had children. For all three of their pregnancys they have all had baby showers. I now 7 years later after my first have decided to have another child. They all have been talking about giving me a baby shower my whole pregnancy however now my son is 2 months old (yes i have already givin birth to hom) still just all talk. Sometimes I really miss my family. I guess you don't know what you have till its gone. How should I think or feel about this or am I just feeling sorry for my self?

So when I was 18 I moved from my home town 700 miles away to a different state. I left my family friends and everyone and thing I knew for a man. I became pregnant had my first child with in a year. Because I had no family or friends I had no baby shower. He has three older daughters near the same age as me now 9 years later they have had children. For all three of their pregnancys they have all had baby showers. I now 7 years later after my first have decided to have another child. They all have been talking about giving me a baby shower my whole pregnancy however now my son is 2 months old (yes i have already givin birth to hom) still just all talk. Sometimes I really miss my family. I guess you don't know what you have till its gone. How should I think or feel about this or am I just feeling sorry for my self?