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I have no idea how it happened, but I m attracted to a guy who is 4 years younger than I am but acts mature for his age. I know later on in life, it won t bother me at all. (My mom is 4 years older than my dad, no one frowns upon it and they re so in love) But right now, I m 20 and this guy is 16. Is that too weird... I feel like I would get judged harshly for it, but I feel like later on in life, I wouldn t... So I m wondering, how big is "too big", when it comes to age gaps?

There's a guy that I go to school with, and we were talking for about a month or two. I decided that I really like him. And he said he really likes me.

Before we had started school, his girlfriend of two years had broken up with him. He was moving on and that was when he and I started talking. But one weekend, his ex texted him and he realized he wasn't ready to move on, and he told me that he didn't think we should talk. He told me that he really likes me and that he sees a chance for us in the future, just not right now. He also said he wants there to be a chance for us. So I told myself, "Ok, I can wait and see what happens for a little while."

A couple weeks later, we started having conversation again. Then last Wednesday, I actually stayed the night with him like we used to do when we were talking, and it was the best night we'd had together. But then he vanished again.

Last night, I finally approached him. He said that he was talking to his ex again as of last week. I asked him if he had lied to me when he said he wanted to be with me, and he said that he had told me nothing but the truth. I asked if he even thought it was possible, and he said "Anything is possible." I asked if he could ever see himself liking me that much, and he said "I don't see why not."

So I don't know what to do. This guy made me happier and I felt more comfortable around him than any other guy. I don't know if I should wait or move on, because either one is going to hurt at this point.

Ok I already kind of asked this question, but I'm going to go a little more in depth.

I'm 18 years old, I've had my period since I was 12. It's normally regular, at the end of the month, but occasionally, it skips an entire month and starts at the beginning of the next month, which is fine.

When I was living at home, I was on a similar cycle with my mom and sister. I moved out and went to college in August, and my roommate has a different cycle than me so at first I thought maybe I was changing since I'm living with her.

My last period was two weeks early, and my most recent one should've been either this past week or within the next couple of days and it's still not here.

Here's why I'm stressed: Four times this month, I've shared a bed with a guy. I was always wearing shorts and a t-shirt, and he was always in shorts and didn't wear a shirt. We didn't have any sex whatsoever, but I'm paranoid and have a bad feeling he tried something while I slept?? But I'm a virgin so you would think I would've felt it, right?

I've also been sick for the past two weeks (so during my regular cycle), and I'm freaking out about the whole stupid pregnancy idea so I'm super stressed and I read where both of those can delay a period. I'm ALSO stressing because the guy I stayed with hasn't been talking to me lately, which makes me even more paranoid that he's keeping something from me.

So you tell me: Am I completely stupid for thinking I'm pregnant? Why do you think my period is late?

I have an iPhone 5s that I got back in December, and it has the new version of iOS 7 installed. (I don't know if that makes a difference or not)

All I really want out of the jailbreak is to be able to customize my phone. I don't care about unlocking it or getting new apps really.

I just need to know, is it a smart move? Everyone I've asked that has jail broken their phone has said they were successful, but I'm worried that my phone will be the one that is destroyed. Could you guys give me some pros and cons to jailbreaking and whether or not you would risk it?

Thanks!

I apologize in advance if this is long.

Ok so I've known this boy for 2 years from work. He just celebrated one year with his girlfriend. We've always been like siblings, & people say we "bicker like a married couple" so we have a good relationship. And I definitely have feelings for him. But here's where I'm confused:

1) He drunk snapchatted me saying that I was cute and that if he was single, he would hook up with me.

2) He made a deal with me that if he's single by the end of summer, we'll hook up "for sure", in his words.

3) Another night, he soberly snapchatted me with no shirt on, and I playfully said "maybe you should put a shirt on, goober" and he said "maybe you should take yours off" (he wasn't drunk, so he knew what he was saying)

4) My friends have said that he complains about his girlfriend at work, about how controlling she is and stuff like that.

5) His girlfriend hates me, for what reason, I don't know.

6) He only flirts with me through snapchat, and always after 12am. It seems like it's because he doesn't want his girlfriend being able to see what he says since snapchats are deleted, but maybe that's just me.

I don't want to be 'that girl' that is the reason for someone's breakup, but it sounds to me like he's planning on being single, and that he might be interested in me? What do you guys think? Should I wait and see what happens? Or should I forget about it and move on?

I'm 18 and graduating high school in a month. I'm planning on going to a college that's an hour away from home, but I'm kind of scared... Obviously, being 18, I have no experience with being on my own, and I love my family and my house and my town, and it's really depressing to know I'm going to be leaving them.

I guess I'm scared to grow up. Is there anything I can do to make myself "not scared"?

I know this is really stupid, but the fact that it's been bothering me for two weeks makes it a big problem...

First, don't shoot me down or call me an idiot for this. I'm not sure that I exactly believe it.

Anyways, the guy I really like drunk texted me the other night. He wasn't like totally wasted or anything, just a little off the edge. He was a little more flirtatious than usual, but I didn't really think anything of it. Personally I found it somewhat funny to see him struggle to spell words correctly.

Today at school, I told my friend that he had drunk texted me and the first thing she said was, "Oooh that means he was thinking about you before and while he was intoxicated!"

Is there any chance that this is true? Cause I'm honestly not sure haha

I was sitting in a chair playing video games and all of a sudden, I got this pain in the back left side of my neck. It hurts to tilt my head to the left and to completely turn to the left. It hurts even worse to look up, but I can look down just fine. What is this random pain?? I didn't even do anything.. When will it go away? I have to work in an hour, but I can't work like this!! Please help :(

I play lacrosse in high school and I love it. I'm also passionate about photography and want to go to college for it. I'm a junior in high school and I need to start looking for a college. Are there any in Ohio (or closely surrounding states) that have a photography program AND a lacrosse team?

Please answer!

I used to straighten my hair everyday without heat protectant. (don't yell at me and tell me how stupid i am because I know, I'm paying for it now.) my hair is damaged so i can't straighten it until it's better, which could take up to 6 months. it's already been a month and I can't take it anymore.

my natural hair is really curly, but it's not like a cute curly. it's really bad. and it's frizzy. is there any way at all that I can straighten my hair without using heat? I'm tired of wearing my hair curly!

Okay, first I'll lay out what's wrong.

My hair is damaged, really really bad. I've thinned it too much and you can see through it at my neck, and it isn't thickening.I wash, dry, and straighten it every night, without heat protectant. (I know, totally bad, but I'm going to stop). My hair is oily a lot. When I run my hands through it when it's damp, pieces fall out. I heard diet has something to do with this, and I don't eat good at all.

HELP. I want my hair thick and healthy again. Starting yesterday, I'm using Moroccan Argan Oil. My hair stylist recommended i use prenatal vitamins, which I'm getting tomorrow. I'm also going to change my diet.

I'm just really scared. Will my hair ever be healthy again? Or am I hopeless? I just feel like when I go out in public, I look like I have a disease and I hate it. I regret mistreating my hair, and if I can get it to be healthy again, I will NEVER mistreat it again.

Do you have tips or advice?? Please help!!! I'm really scared :'(

my hair is naturally really thick. last year I didn't like it, so I thinned it..a lot. now my hair is really thin (you can see through it at the bottom), and it's really damaged. whenever I run my hands through my hair in the shower, strands fall out. I told myself, "it'll thicken again. it always does." but it hasn't.

I need help. bad. how do I make my hair thick and healthy again?? I'm scared :(

http://www.ehow.com/how_5327077_photograph-rock-st...

here they call it rock stacking, but doesn't this have a special name?

I've had acne for about 3 or 4 years. (I'm 17) When I was younger, I had no problems at all. I'm trying to wash my face every morning and every night now. I'm really self conscious about my skin :( Can I "grow out" of acne? And if I can, do you think I will since I didn't have it when I was younger?

I'm 5'4", 112 pounds. I'm pretty content with my weight, but I hate my thighs. They're a little large, I think, and I really want a gap between them by summer. What are some easy ways to like, make them smaller by summer? I don't exactly want to lose a lot weight cause I'm already small, I just want them to look better.

I have this rather large zit on my chin, and I've half-popped it twice, but all it does is bleed, scab over, and get worse. Even if I put medicine on it. How do I get rid of it?? I'm tired of walking through school with my head down! ):

I have acne pretty bad. What are some things I can do to get rid of it fast and easily?

I'm doing a mock murder trial for my English class, and I'm the crime scene photographer. I need a certificate of authenticity or my photos are worthless. How do I set one up? Can you link me to a template? I can't find anything.

My room is currently a bright neon green. I want to paint it more of an ivory color. Do I have to prime it or anything first or do I just paint?

like this: http://www.lw-concepts.com/lw/wp-content/uploads/2...

But I want them to be brown... And not too expensive! $80 or under, preferably. Please help! I want some really bad!