Sorry - I should have added details. We have an 8 year old son together, but broke up shortly after his 2nd birthday. I married someone else, had another child, but got divorced a few years ago. He and I have been dating ever since.
cubbies9911
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If you've been on again off again for 14 years and have been going strong for the past 2, marriage might not be on his to do list. Tell him you want marriage and if he doesn't, it isn't meant to be. If he truly loves you he'll marry you. He may even say that he doesn't want it but after time apart he may come to his senses. Being away from you may devistate him enough to realize he wants marriage. It's like how alcoholics have to hit rock bottom before they have their moment of clearity and come to their senses.
dancer_rstevens
hun you need to look deep down inside yourself and ask your self if this is what you really want it sounds to me like you two arent committed already i dont know the details but if you two are on again off again then is it really worth it??? were do you want to be in the next couple of years??? what r your goals? do they include him and does he want them to include him?? tell him that this is your goal maybe to be married in say the next 3 years you want to start a family if he doesnt think he can do it then tell him to call you when and if he thinks hes ready if hes to late then thats his problem it was fun but this is what you wanted you cant wait around for someone to fine out that all of a sudden they want to be apart off your life
sxygatita
i dont know i mean 14yrs and he hasnt yet i dont think he will he would of done it allready dont u think
charlee906
STOP DATING HIS ***. THAT RELATIONSHIP IS A BOOTY CALL
chacha777
lol oh jeez