my dad moved to chihuahua mexico and married a lady that all ready had kids i go see my dad and meet her kids well i stay down there in mexico for 3 years me and my( sis) claudia became very close accepte each other as bro and sis well i moved back up here and when i went back to mexico she had broke up with her boyfrind they dated for 8 years and have 2 kids well when i went down there she told me (its not yuor money i want i want yoyu herb) and the next day she asked me to meet her in the shower!!!!! i just scratched my head smiled and told her she was loca and i went to my friends house. Can we date?? i do have feelings for her
lisa3522006-05-15T05:21:08Z
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She is JUST your step-sister. It sounds like you're both consenting ADULTS. Sheesh, these idiots who say/think you're blood related or it is against the law, OMG!!! There is NO blood relation in step-sister/step-brother. Two people who aren't related get married and their kids are step-brother/sister. What fools!!! I say go for it!! Life is short!! You might regret it later if you don't!! Good luck.
I would say it's not a good idea. It will cause family strife for one thing. For another for her to just ask you to meet her in the shower, just like that, without being in a relationship. Plus the fact that she brought up the money issue. She probably wants you to take care of her and her kids. This doesn't mean she's a bad person, but she's probably a little bit desparate. Find someone you aren't related too, even by marraige.
You are not realated by blood, just as if you and your father had met a mother/daughter couple at the same time and started dating them. I don't think it is advisable to do though. It brings feelings into situations and family situations that they just don't belong. You will always have to see her, be around her, and if it didnt' work out that just might not be a good thing. I think it is best to keep a brother/sister role, one that can last a life time and be very meaningful. She is also on the rebound so you put together...stepsister/rebound? no I don't think so!
You are not related in any way by blood - so why couldn't you date her, except that I think you are kind of young to date a woman with two children. But Budd - if you really like her - I say go for it and see if you can be responsible for a instant family.