How do u choose who not 2 nvite 2 a housewarming party? Saying Adults only, when most of ur guests have kids?

My friend ended up only inviting her husbands family w/o kids. Her Mom suggested not to invite her side since if they got the invite with no kids they would be offended.....How do you fix that?

Anonymous2006-08-09T10:07:00Z

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they should not be offened that their kids are not invited, sometimes parents need to be around adults. What I do when I send out my invitations I write on them FOR THE GROWN AND SEXY ONLY. this always work, so while u r telling them that is only for the grown not their kids u r also complementing them. lol works everytime


good luck

ps can i come.

welches_grape_jelly2006-08-09T17:12:05Z

It's fine to have on the invitation "Adults Only". If they want to come, they can find a sitter or someone to watch their children. Call everyone you plan on inviting and talk to them about why you are having a no-kids party. I'm sure they will understand. This isn't a situation where you are asking people to travel far, it's neighbors and friends and family that live close. If the people get offended, then it's their loss.
Speaking as a parent, most of us relish the time without them in tow. Many will jump at the excuse to have time out as adults without the kids to worry about.

jtj2006-08-09T17:05:08Z

On the invitation say adults only, if they want to attend they will find a babysitter.

R J2006-08-09T17:05:40Z

Why don't you rent one of those "inflatable" jumping structures and put the kids in the back?