Is it possible for a man to make a mistake being with one women when he loves another?

my man left me for another though he isnt 100% sure its what he wanted.arent relationships about sticking things out through thick and thin? i left him before and he was hurt, now he has hurt me.do i take it and wait or move on?

he is an amazing person by nature, we all do silly things at times, im prime proof of that O.O

Carrie2009-04-20T21:55:07Z

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If someone leaves you to be with another, he is not that into you. Plain and simple move on. Why do you want to be with someone who is not 100% sure whether they want to be with you?
You cannot force someone to like, love and want to be with you. Move on and find someone else who wants to be with you.

Willbewill2009-04-20T22:03:51Z

Very rarely do I see a man on this site asking how to choose between two people but I see the wifes and girlfriends on here constantly asking this question. I think marriage is about sticking together even in the times when your heart is not in it because there will come a time when your partner will feel the same. Sometimes karma is a good thing and brings justice.

m_cyberfriend2009-04-20T22:07:20Z

you are right that one has to reslove things in a relationship.. If you both does not have hard feelings for each others you should think of getting along together if something is really good between you and if you have love and respect for each other on that..

I am sure he will think and take care of what is he is feeling on where he is now.. Just sense it and if he is fine you have to move on without hurting him anymore as you are the one who moved out first..

MML2009-04-20T21:58:40Z

You both sound like you don't know what you want, so you need to move on and forget about being with this other guy. He sounds wishy-washy and I wouldn't think you'd want or need that in your life! You left him, now he's leaving you - it sounds like a game.

Do some soul-searching, but do it alone and don't ever sell yourself short. You deserve better than that!

<*DaNcEr*>2009-04-20T21:54:57Z

he could have made a mistake, or he could be happier now. if u want to be patient and wait it out, it will work for a while. unless he's not coming back, then its a waste of time. the best thing to do is to talk 2 him

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