Is it possible for a man to make a mistake being with one women when he loves another?

If someone leaves you to be with another, he is not that into you. Plain and simple move on. Why do you want to be with someone who is not 100% sure whether they want to be with you?

You cannot force someone to like, love and want to be with you. Move on and find someone else who wants to be with you.

Very rarely do I see a man on this site asking how to choose between two people but I see the wifes and girlfriends on here constantly asking this question. I think marriage is about sticking together even in the times when your heart is not in it because there will come a time when your partner will feel the same. Sometimes karma is a good thing and brings justice.

you are right that one has to reslove things in a relationship.. If you both does not have hard feelings for each others you should think of getting along together if something is really good between you and if you have love and respect for each other on that..

I am sure he will think and take care of what is he is feeling on where he is now.. Just sense it and if he is fine you have to move on without hurting him anymore as you are the one who moved out first..

You both sound like you don't know what you want, so you need to move on and forget about being with this other guy. He sounds wishy-washy and I wouldn't think you'd want or need that in your life! You left him, now he's leaving you - it sounds like a game.

Do some soul-searching, but do it alone and don't ever sell yourself short. You deserve better than that!

he could have made a mistake, or he could be happier now. if u want to be patient and wait it out, it will work for a while. unless he's not coming back, then its a waste of time. the best thing to do is to talk 2 him

yes its possible but the opposite is true too. Your situation is confusing so just let it go, withdraw and figure out what you both want exactly. Don't worry about losing him. If he is truly your man, your feelings for him will continue. And if you're truly his woman, his feelings for the other girl will not last.

well your sub title doesnt really make sense.. does he love you or does he love the other women? either way, its definitely wrong to throw away love for something else, if you love someone i think its worth trying to save the relationship. But if he cares little enough to leave you for another women then is he worth it? You may love him, but if he is doing that to you i dont think he loves you back.

All things said i dont know what your relationship with him is like,

im stuck in a similiar situation with my boyfriend however he hasnt left me for another women..just left me.

Its hard, but stick to your guns if he loves you he will come back to you.. but i dont think he loves you for the fact he ditched you for this other girl

It happens all the time. This is the reason to wait and let the Lord find you a spouse. That is if you are a born again Christian.

Never ever ever wait on a man. Ever.

That doesn't sound good, to be honest. You just want to deny it.

My advice: move on.