Jayjhonson

I enjoy reading peoples views on life and people in general. I just wrote an article on mine; if you're interested in taking a read.. http://www.jayjhonson.com/a-little-food-for-though...

Either way It'll be a little interesting hearing your thoughts.

Jay

Does anyone know how to avoid having to pay for itinerary and flights that wont be used? I dont want to pay and then my visa might get rejected. also i want to backpack around a few countries and dont want to have to reserve and be bogged down to one place unless i want to, for any length of time.

Any way to get around this? Thanks.

whats it like paying rent and also how do people treat u in general?

Just curious because i have heard about hostility towards muslims and im curious because im thinking of moving there. i visited when i was younger and it was one of my best holidays ever. at th time th scotts were lovely and the place even more so...Thanks any positive feedback would be welcome.

whether a service you need offered to you or something you'd like to buy and make use of?

a) product

b) service

I'll go 1st...

a) a larger variety of hair products for black afro hair (like mine, lol )

b) A better educational system (if thats ever possible)

your turn..

P.s (sorry if this isnt in the right category, it'd mean the world to me to hear from everyone willing to answer, thanks a bunch! )

whether a service you need offered to you or something you'd like to buy and make use of?

a) product

b) service

I'll go 1st...

a) a larger variety of hair products for black afro hair (like mine, lol )

b) A better educational system (if thats ever possible)

your turn..

P.s (sorry if this isnt in the right category, it'd mean the world to me to hear from everyone willing to answer, thanks a bunch! )

whether a service you need offered to you or something you'd like to buy and make use of?

a) product

b) service

I'll go 1st...

a) a larger variety of hair products for black afro hair (like mine, lol )

b) A better educational system (if thats ever possible)

your turn..

P.s (sorry if this isnt in the right category, it'd mean the world to me to hear from everyone willing to answer, thanks a bunch! )

whether a service you need offered to you or something you'd like to buy and make use of?

a) product

b) service

I'll go 1st...

a) a larger variety of hair products for black afro hair (like mine, lol )

b) A better educational system (if thats ever possible)

your turn..

P.s (sorry if this isnt in the right category, it'd mean the world to me to hear from everyone willing to answer, thanks a bunch! )

whether a service you need offered to you or something you'd like to buy and make use of?

a) product

b) service

I'll go 1st...

a) a larger variety of hair products for black afro hair (like mine, lol )

b) A better educational system (if thats ever possible)

your turn..

P.s (sorry if this isnt in the right category, it'd mean the world to me to hear from everyone willing to answer, thanks a bunch! )

whether a service you need offered to you or something you'd like to buy and make use of?

a) product

b) service

I'll go 1st...

a) a larger variety of hair products for black afro hair (like mine, lol )

b) A better educational system (if thats ever possible)

your turn..

P.s (sorry if this isnt in the right category, it'd mean the world to me to hear from everyone willing to answer, thanks a bunch! )

whether a service you need offered to you or something you'd like to buy and make use of?

a) product

b) service

I'll go 1st...

a) a larger variety of hair products for black afro hair (like mine, lol )

b) A better educational system (if thats ever possible)

your turn..

P.s (sorry if this isnt in the right category, it'd mean the world to me to hear from everyone willing to answer, thanks a bunch! )

Hiya, If there was one thing that you WANT/NEED what would it be?

whether a service you need offered to you or something you'd like to buy and make use of?

a) product

b) service

I'll go 1st...

a) a larger variety of hair products for black afro hair (like mine, lol )

b) A better educational system (if thats ever possible)

your turn..

P.s (sorry if this isnt in the right category, it'd mean the world to me to hear from everyone willing to answer, thanks a bunch! )

we loved each other for 3and a half years. a year into our relationship i left believing that he wasnt seriously into me as i was him, we split on not so cheerful terms as he believed i was just playing games because i'd left him but had still remained in contact with him.in the end i gave him the space he needed. 2years later he calls out of the blue and we talk, i finally confess why i'd left.he was hurt and fustrated. we spoke as we used to before and when we saw eachother, fireworks sparked, awesome's an understatment describing how it was. we'd missed each other so much, we discussed a future together and both looked forward to being with each other, the only thing was that i was exactly sure where i stood in his life, because he was very hesitant.this is because before we happened, he'd gotten a divorce a year before we met.so his ex wife had left, then i did, i guess it really got to him.anyways he kept saying that he couldnt do this('us') every few months, i finally got sick of it and told him not to call me unless he was serious about me.2weeks later i hear that he is engaged. i was so hurt, i emailed him a little later and told him that he could have told me instead of making me hear it from my friend.he had lame excuses which i wont even bother mentioning.in my heart i think that he was simply scared of being with a women who had the potential of leaving him.so instead of giving us a chance, with his previous hurtful divorce still fresh in his mind, instead of attempting, he turned his back instead of taking the chance of giving us a try and see if we'd work as a married couple.and yet again i may be wrong.

im smart and i know when a person doesnt deserve me and when to move on.i was just curious if any men made any rash desicions of leaving someone they still loved,and then regretted it? whether it was because u had to, or for another women ect...

would luv 2hear what u think

Thanx

we loved each other for 3and a half years. a year into our relationship i left believing that he wasnt seriously into me as i was him, we split on not so cheerful terms as he believed i was just playing games because i'd left him but had still remained in contact with him.in the end i gave him the space he needed. 2years later he calls out of the blue and we talk, i finally confess why i'd left.he was hurt and fustrated. we spoke as we used to before and when we saw eachother, fireworks sparked, awesome's an understatment describing how it was. we'd missed each other so much, we discussed a future together and both looked forward to being with each other, the only thing was that i was exactly sure where i stood in his life, because he was very hesitant.this is because before we happened, he'd gotten a divorce a year before we met.so his ex wife had left, then i did, i guess it really got to him.anyways he kept saying that he couldnt do this('us') every few months, i finally got sick of it and told him not to call me unless he was serious about me.2weeks later i hear that he is engaged. i was so hurt, i emailed him a little later and told him that he could have told me instead of making me hear it from my friend.he had lame excuses which i wont even bother mentioning.in my heart i think that he was simply scared of being with a women who had the potential of leaving him.so instead of giving us a chance, with his previous hurtful divorce still fresh in his mind, instead of attempting, he turned his back instead of taking the chance of giving us a try and see if we'd work as a married couple.and yet again i may be wrong.

im smart and i know when a person doesnt deserve me and when to move on.i was just curious if any men made any rash desicions of leaving someone they still loved,and then regretted it? whether it was because u had to, or for another women ect...

would luv 2hear what u think

Thanx

if a man loves a women who has always loved him and treated him right, but is confused and makes the mistake of leaving her for another women, would he ever think of her and wish he were with her?

thanx

my man left me for another though he isnt 100% sure its what he wanted.arent relationships about sticking things out through thick and thin? i left him before and he was hurt, now he has hurt me.do i take it and wait or move on?

he is an amazing person by nature, we all do silly things at times, im prime proof of that O.O

I loved a man for 3 and a half years and he 'supposedly' did too. a year into our relationship i had left him believeing he didnt see me in the same light as i saw him and that he didnt want 'forever' with me, he just wanted something temporary.this may seem strange to some people but can you give me you genuine opionions on what im about to say next;

2years later i told him the real reason why i left, he was upset that i'd taken so long to tell him that. anyways he ended up getting engaged prior to breaking up with me a month before the engagment. should i email him and ask him the genuine reason behind it?

does knowing why a break up to a good relationship came into effect, helps a person gain closure?

i gave it to him even though it was sooner then later, should i ask for the same? if he was real it would be a real reason and if not then he may say something to hurt me thought it isnt really in his nature to?

i know that this dude left me for another person and i he tricked me once, shame on him, twice shame on me. i am in the slow process of getting over him, and i am trying to cut all contact, i just wanted to know if any1 has ever gone through this and if knowing the reason why a person leaves really helps bring closure or not.

or should i just leave it without ever knowing? this is for MY benefit for future relationships and not an attempt to get any sympathy from this guy of any kind!

so what do you think?

If a man who does everything his parents wants him to do, for example he married the women his parents had wanted him to marry which had ended in a divorce, then he met me and loved me then 4years later does what his parents want him to do AGAIN and goes and marries another women *without even notifying me, he broke up with me a month before i heard this news* out of curiosity, any do u think that he will ever think of me? regret turning me down and bailing on me? will her be happy.

thanks

If a man who does everything his parents wants him to do, for example he married the women his parents had wanted him to marry which had ended in a divorce, then he met me and loved me then 4years later does what his parents want him to do AGAIN and goes and marries another women *without even notifying me, he broke up with me a month before i heard this news* out of curiosity, any do u think that he will ever think of me? regret turning me down and bailing on me? will her be happy.

thanks

If a man who does everything his parents wants him to do, for example he married the women his parents had wanted him to marry which had ended in a divorce, then he met me and loved me then 4years later does what his parents want him to do AGAIN and goes and marries another women *without even notifying me, he broke up with me a month before i heard this news* out of curiosity, any do u think that he will ever think of me? regret turning me down and bailing on me? will her be happy.

thanks

i want to ask you men whether or not you still feel connected to someone u recently had a strong connection with, and whether u still want her the way she does you? some women still constantly think about the man it felt 'so right' with and lust for him like crazy, Do men ever go through that?

do you ever think of her as much as she thinks of you? a women can think of a man ALL the time, though never show it. do men ever do that?

or do men simply move on to the next gal that comes there way?