Men do you ever regret leaving?

we loved each other for 3and a half years. a year into our relationship i left believing that he wasnt seriously into me as i was him, we split on not so cheerful terms as he believed i was just playing games because i'd left him but had still remained in contact with him.in the end i gave him the space he needed. 2years later he calls out of the blue and we talk, i finally confess why i'd left.he was hurt and fustrated. we spoke as we used to before and when we saw eachother, fireworks sparked, awesome's an understatment describing how it was. we'd missed each other so much, we discussed a future together and both looked forward to being with each other, the only thing was that i was exactly sure where i stood in his life, because he was very hesitant.this is because before we happened, he'd gotten a divorce a year before we met.so his ex wife had left, then i did, i guess it really got to him.anyways he kept saying that he couldnt do this('us') every few months, i finally got sick of it and told him not to call me unless he was serious about me.2weeks later i hear that he is engaged. i was so hurt, i emailed him a little later and told him that he could have told me instead of making me hear it from my friend.he had lame excuses which i wont even bother mentioning.in my heart i think that he was simply scared of being with a women who had the potential of leaving him.so instead of giving us a chance, with his previous hurtful divorce still fresh in his mind, instead of attempting, he turned his back instead of taking the chance of giving us a try and see if we'd work as a married couple.and yet again i may be wrong.

im smart and i know when a person doesnt deserve me and when to move on.i was just curious if any men made any rash desicions of leaving someone they still loved,and then regretted it? whether it was because u had to, or for another women ect...

would luv 2hear what u think

Thanx